Bittersweetie Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 But I think for some people (like me) this will always be a wound. I think there's a difference between a wound and scar. A wound is an open hurt. An open wound stays that way because it is not given the proper treatment to heal. A scar comes from a wound that's healed. In most cases it never goes away, you learn to live with it, it's a part of you. If it's a scar that came from doing something wrong, then you can learn from it, it's a reminder to not make the same choice again. We all have scars, inside and out, some of us even deep ones. But a wound you can treat, that is your choice. 2
Author Maybelle Posted January 24, 2019 Author Posted January 24, 2019 @maybelle - Hugs! I am so glad to see your update that you’re doing better and maintaining NC. I have followed your thread since the beginning as I was then in the early days of trying to extricate myself from my own mess. It is done and I’m nearly 5 weeks NC. It is hard most days, but seeing this helps reinforce why it is so important. All the best to you! I'll never break no contact. I've said that from day one and I mean it. I won't give him the satisfaction.
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