Dodgersfan11 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 I came across this guys instagram page, I think he's cute, I want to follow him, I don't know him, he's my type, should I follow him? And what are the chances of him adding on me? Link to post Share on other sites
shydad Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Would it be stupid to follow a guy on instagram that I find attractive? ... And what are the chances of him adding on me? Hi Dodgersfan11, I'm really struggling to think of a reason not to follow him. What are you worried about? I'm not sure what the chances are of him adding you, but for sure it's zero if you take no action. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Instagram is there so that people can get attention from followers. Just don't expect anything from it other than pretty photos on your feed. Link to post Share on other sites
caveman621 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 So you don't know him on a personal level at all? He's just good looking? I see no reason not to! What's the worst that could happen? Link to post Share on other sites
Epythamus Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 I mean, that's a completely normal thing to do. I also add girls on Facebook that I find attractive even if I don't know them at all and then strike a conversation to get to know them and stuff. It's called SOCIAL media for a reason, you're supposed to socialize on them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dodgersfan11 Posted October 12, 2018 Author Share Posted October 12, 2018 Well, I ended up following him, since his profile is public on instagram. He didn't follow me back though, not sure why? I have pictures on my profile even if I don't personally know him at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dodgersfan11 Posted October 12, 2018 Author Share Posted October 12, 2018 I mean, that's a completely normal thing to do. I also add girls on Facebook that I find attractive even if I don't know them at all and then strike a conversation to get to know them and stuff. It's called SOCIAL media for a reason, you're supposed to socialize on them. Really? most people on facebook don't add strangers. Idk, its more personally I guess. Instagram is another story. Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 My basic rule in life - do not chase men. You can take that for whatever you think it's worth. People love to argue about it but I've seen it backfire over and over again. Your call. Since you're trawling for opinions, I think it's a bad idea. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted October 15, 2018 Share Posted October 15, 2018 Well, I ended up following him, since his profile is public on instagram. He didn't follow me back though, not sure why? ... because he doesn't know you. It's fine if you want to look at his pictures. Just don't expect anything more from this man. Link to post Share on other sites
GinON Posted October 15, 2018 Share Posted October 15, 2018 Whenever a woman that I have no clue about follows me on social media, they usually have pics of themselves that lead me to believe they are prostitutes. In the situations where they look like normal people, I assume they like something about what I am doing, but I would never think anything about forming a relationship with them. If he noticed you following him at all, he may have had some of those thoughts, or perhaps he is busy. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 15, 2018 Share Posted October 15, 2018 Well, I ended up following him, since his profile is public on instagram. He didn't follow me back though, not sure why? I have pictures on my profile even if I don't personally know him at all. Of course he didn't follow you in return - this is exactly what I meant when I said to not have any expectations of anything other than pretty pictures in your feed. With the exception of established friendships, there's no expectation in instagram of reciprocal following. Link to post Share on other sites
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