kayj1216 Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Hi so I just started dating this guy I met online. I was in an abusive relationship for years which ended in him cheating. My ex had me convinced I would never find anyone and then this guy walked in, it was only a couple months after me relationship ended and at that point I never thought I would be happy again but there was a connection right from the start. we can talk for hours and its never awkward he has made me happier than I have ever been before. The problem is we have only dated for about a month, haven't even slept together, and he tells me he is moving in a few months for work and to be closer to his son. I really like him and he has told me he feels the same however he did say we are too early in the relationship for him to expect me to move, I have a career here and a child with my ex so I can't just pack up and move. This broke my heart and I can't stop thinking about him. Should I tell him how I feel and suggest to continue dating for the next couple of months or just leave it.
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Why torture yourself catching feelings when it's going to end. IMO I would not bother. Other fish in the sea.
Gretchen12 Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Why is he dating online to meet locals when he knew he will be moving? Was he looking for hookups? If he has not taken steps to find a new job for the relocation, he might not be moving, might be just telling you that as an easy way to end things.
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