Hopeful30 Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 A guy in our social group (who makes me wanna throw up randomly, this was in other post) has never hit on me or made me uncomfortable, but has hinted that he wouldnt mind taking things further. Thing is, we are good friends, and im unsure if its okay to keep hanging w someone who wants more. Its easy for me because it's never awkward or weird, but im not sure if its unfair to him. Hes not inlove or anything, he gets on with different girls happily, but I cant help but feel like im leading him on if we continue being friends? Especially since I got the hint? Thoughts?
alphamale Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 A guy in our social group (who makes me wanna throw up randomly, this was in other post) has never hit on me or made me uncomfortable, but has hinted that he wouldnt mind taking things further. Thing is, we are good friends, and im unsure if its okay to keep hanging w someone who wants more. Its easy for me because it's never awkward or weird, but im not sure if its unfair to him. Hes not inlove or anything, he gets on with different girls happily, but I cant help but feel like im leading him on if we continue being friends? Especially since I got the hint? Thoughts? you need to tell him that you two are just friends. if he is ok with that then by all means carry on... 1
PRW Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 If you tried to hide from every Orbiter that is out there you'd never leave your house. If you and him are in the same social circles than you can't get away from him without abandoning the whole social group. Just roll with it. When he doesn't get what he wants he will eventually give up and start attaching to another. Maybe he will eventually do that with someone who responds.
Andy_K Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 As part of a group, no issue with it. Avoid spending much time with him one on one though, it'll just get his hopes up. 4
Author Hopeful30 Posted October 10, 2018 Author Posted October 10, 2018 As part of a group, no issue with it. Avoid spending much time with him one on one though, it'll just get his hopes up. Aww shucks there goes my weed buddy 1
alphamale Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Aww shucks there goes my weed buddy a friend with weed is a friend indeed 2
preraph Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 I agree you shouldn't socialize with him alone. And by the way, nothing is quite as bad trippy and panick-making as a friend coming on to you while you're bonged out of your mind. It will be like a bad dream.
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Him catching feelings for you is his problem not really yours. You want to ward him off talk about other guys and tell him how hot they are.
dispatch3d Posted October 10, 2018 Posted October 10, 2018 Him catching feelings for you is his problem not really yours. You want to ward him off talk about other guys and tell him how hot they are. That'll result in pissing him off and he'll distance himself, just FYI.
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