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I met this girl a while ago, and we went out last night. I want to take her out and pursue some kind of relationship, but she has a boyfriend in Iraq.

 

She said that she wants to hang out and go swing dancing and she was giving me sings like she was into me, and she only mentioned him when we talked about the war.

 

I dont go swing dancing with friends, but is that what she wants?

 

any advice, or if you need more info, let me know

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I wouldn't read too much into it. It sounds like she is lonely for male company, and you just happen to be there. Should you choose to hang out with her, you'll have to be clear that you don't want to be romantically involved with a girl who has a boyfriend and then force it into a platonic state by refusing any and all contact/words that suggest something other than 'just friends'. Nothing says you can't enjoy her company, it just wouldn't be wise right now to enjoy it too much, if you know what I mean.

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thats how I was leaning. Anyway I just need some attention from a lady, but I want physical attention. I guess a rebound is what they call it

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