cplfun13 Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 My partner and I come from work that keeps you traveling and on the road a lot. We are used to the lifestyle and I am the first relationship that he has had that is familiar with the road. Not many females in this industry, and I am around males all the time. All these men cheat on their wives while on the road.. I mean ALL.. I dont know one that has not at one point or another. They are gone for a couple months at a time and find some sort of sexaul playmate, whether it is a hooker or a bar fly. I am now in a long term relationship with someone from our industry. before we were involved he would also share stories of some of the guys and their ongoings. He never was in a real serious relationship before until me. He swares he would never cheat and do what they would, but how can he be the only one not to? I mean it when I say I dont know of one male on the road that hasnt... Its hard for me becuase I know the lifestyle.. I know the people he is around. Yea, I know trust is a factor and I do trust him. I just cant believe I found the only ONE....Any suggestions.
bluechocolate Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 If you really like the guy you're just going to have to follow your gut instinct on this one. You're aware of the risks involved & given the amount of time you're apart perhaps you shouldn't get bogged down with the issue of exclusivity. Assumes he's dating other women & keep yourself available to other men. Then see how things are in a years time.
Forever Searching Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Wow!! That makes me want to play the other field!! Do all guys cheat like this!!! lol!!
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