jhurtinct Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 What makes a women good in bed? I've heard people comment (not on me) in general that girl was good in bed, or that girl was great last night. so waht is it that makes a women good in bed? Problem in current relationship with sex so just looking for pointers THANKS:o
Pyro Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 I don't have a definite answer, but a couple of things that come to mind would be experience with previous relationships or from watching porn.
confused&inneed Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 i think, being a girl. That its not just the girl that is good in bed, but the help of the man aswell. doing little things that make here "squirm," that please her, helps. Plus she'll more than likely do little things back to you, taht you like aswell. I tihnk that having a nice hot and heaving fourplay building upto sex makes the sex better. Pluss it never hurts to try new things!! but i am only on person...seak out others opinion aswell. Good Luck!
Author jhurtinct Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 thank you guys for your responses. keep them coming:bunny: please.
ThatOneGuy Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well you have to ask her the question "Are there any treads left on the tires or is it like throwing a hot-dog down a hallway?"
Author jhurtinct Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 thatoneguy yes there is 'still plenty of tread left on the tire' ? is what can or does a women do to make her great in bed?
ThatOneGuy Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well I dunno... I've never really had a Horrable experiance in the sack. I mean, When im kickin it with the guys they tell me all these storys, like my friend Eric was telling me; "Yeah, I slept with this chick and she just totally ruined roast beef for me. And like, She wanted to cuddle right? But I just wanted to go take a shower, I felt dirty!" Hahaha, Funny guy that Eric. Anyway, I guess the best sex (And this is also Ironic) is the stuff you have to work for. I mean, If the chick gives it up easily, Well there isn't much fun in that, Plus if she gives it up easy for you, Then she gives it up easy for everyone else. Sure, One night stands are all well and good, But if you find a chick that actually wants to wait, Well hot damn. It's Undescribable. But look at it from a girls POV. They don't exactly have to preasure guys into sex. You rarely hear stories about "Umm, Baby, I love you and all, But I don't think Im ready to have hot Passionate sex with you". But yeah, Maybe im just wierd like that.
elijahBailey Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 What makes a women good in bed? ....when she starts off by saying (thru gritted teeth) .... "I just want ya to f**k me hard"!! .... and mean it. That'll do it, even if she under-performs later on.
l2hvn Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 you have to know what your guy likes. ask him what he wants to be done to him.. maybe play out some of his fantasies... from my experience, i like to build great anticipation and long foreplays. guys LOVE getting oral sex!!! work on that. also, IMO, if a girl is comfortable in her own skin, then she feels sexy. she feels confident. she feels sexually powerful. i hope that makes sense...
alphamale Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 What makes a women good in bed? 1) she knows when to be dominant and when to be submissive 2) she is uninhibited in bed 3) she does not believe that sex is "dirty" 4) she is comfortable with her body 5) she likes to do everything in every posiiton 6) she does not always want to "make love" and sometimes just likes to "f***" 7) she like to try out new stuff in new places
whichwayisup Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Definately what Alpha said. #6 is crucial!!!!!!! For me I know it's a comfort level and that just comes with experience and age. Sex now is so much better than sex when I was younger.
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 definately just have to be i nto it. The last girl I tried to hook up with just wanted to lay there and I couldn't get into it. Didn't seem like she wanted to have sex, which is fine, but then dont get naked in my bed. Oh, and personally she has to be well groomed
Mz. Pixie Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Alpha had some great answers, I have always tried to follow all of those rules! I think what's important for a man as well is for you to be enthusiastic in bed. Real enthusiasm. They want you to want it as much as they do and not just be giving in to please them. They can also tell if you find something distasteful, such as giving oral sex and such. They like to be approached and not just do all of the initiating. Being in touch with yourself sexually is a good place to start. I'm not sure how old you are- but I have gained sexual confidence as I've gotten older and more experienced.
JS17 Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 I'd pretty much just echo what everyone else has had to say. My addition would be lap dances and ear biting. Kiegels are the exercises that Zoey is talking about on the other thread.
Author jhurtinct Posted September 10, 2005 Author Posted September 10, 2005 thank you guys, going away this weekend hope to have a great time. keep the suggestions coming, can use all I can get:) thanks again. hope its a great weekend:)
DeaconFrost Posted September 12, 2005 Posted September 12, 2005 EVERYTHING that Alpha said is a must. Taking initiative is a huge thing for me. I pretty much have an endless sex drive, so not having to continuously make the moves is beyond refreshing. Hit us with it when we least expect it and definately don't hold back on the oral...even if you don't feel like sex. Us guys really want a girl to be all about having some great sex. Education helps, but we really want the drive. We want a girl to want the sex more than we do and we want to see that in everything she does. The moment we get the feeling that your doing it as if your satisfying a chore is the exact moment we get real pissed (after we have sex of course ) Just remember there are no rules! Mix everything up! At night and in the bedroom are not the only circumstances for sex romps. And stop being so damn tired. Take some vitamins or something. That'll help!
Iluvsiamese Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 The "chore" part pisses us off too--but BEFORE we have sex. I wish men could have multiple orgasms, lol.
Author jhurtinct Posted September 13, 2005 Author Posted September 13, 2005 had a great weekend guys:) thanks for the responses, I'm going to keep this post for future reference to read and remind:)) anyone else feel free to keep the advice/suggestions coming.
Iluvsiamese Posted September 13, 2005 Posted September 13, 2005 If you have the funds available, try a set of those liberator foam wedges. Amazing things. Expensive, but worth it.
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