WallaceNG Posted October 6, 2018 Posted October 6, 2018 So for anyone dont know my situation yet, you can relate to my previous post : Basically, I dated one girl two weeks before, she has a nice body and sexy. But our age gap is huge, she is almost 18 and I'm 27. Everything was great, one week into our relationship, she already slept in my home everyday and we went to a trip to Thailand as well. So in my mind, the relationship was short-lived(4 months) but I was deeply attached to her. The reason why we split was because I found out she cheated on me with a guy in another city by snooping her phone though she claimed they didn't have sex but I saw there was a nude pic of herself taken in his home. At first, I said I will give her time to decide but she said she may take a very long time to think. After few days, she didn't contact me at all so I initiated the contact saying I will help her to buy the iPhone XS by paying US$400 and buy her a new iPhone each year so she agreed to become a friend with benefits with me, because I still love her and have a strong sexual desire on her. That day, the bill cost me nearly US$1,300 as she purchased an iPhone XS, a pair of Airpods and a 2m charging cable. But she only paid me $400 and said she will sell her old iPhone and will pay me $400 later. The reason why I bought the phone for her is, before our split, she said even her parent never bought her any phones before and she really want the new iPhone, it will meant a lot to her. The day I bought the iPhone, she said her Dad want to sell her old iPhone so he can get a iPhone XR later, which mean my $900 is gone. Originally, she agreed to come over my place 2,3 times a week. But yesterday she said she can only come once and there should be nobody at home. Even when I want a casual meetup, she always comes up with excuses like she is busy with the study, she is sick or she is meeting her friends, something like that. So I was so pissed yesterday night, and I said I will tell her father I paid her $900 for buying the iPhone, we struggled for few hours on the text messages before she finally told her father that by her own. When she got the money from her father, which she had a photo for the prove, she tried to hurt me further by pointing out my bad things, insecurities and even said she never loved, respected and cared me the whole time, and she cheated because I was cold to her at the first place, and saying doesn't want to have any to do with me anymore. She still had two excuses for the money, she said she need a ATM card of the back to deposit the cash in my bank account and the number is wrong, something like that. We agreed to meet up later in this afternoon so she can give me back the money, I'm expecting she will act extremely disrespectful at that time. Right now, I decided to enter no contact with her and move on, but what can I do in order to help me heal faster and forget this toxic person.
FMW Posted October 6, 2018 Posted October 6, 2018 You'll heal faster if you stop seeing yourself as a victim. When she agreed to be your FWB for money, she showed you all you needed to know. See her for who she really is, see yourself for who you were for your involvement with her. You both jumped into a physical relationship very quickly, she cheated on you, you decided to give her money to keep her around for sex, then she flakes on you, and you threaten her with telling her dad how trashy she's been. Don't get involved with women just because they have great bodies, don't buy their time, especially after you know they're xxxxing other guys. Stop looking at it as a failed love story. Learn those lessons and look forward to a better class of woman and relationship in the future. (I know that's harsh, but brutal honesty with yourself is the best way to heal, I've learned that personally.)
ExpatInItaly Posted October 6, 2018 Posted October 6, 2018 OP, she is a 17-year-old kid. You are old enough to know better.
HumanMachine Posted October 6, 2018 Posted October 6, 2018 Buying phones for kids in exchange for sex.. come on OP 1
doyathinkso Posted October 6, 2018 Posted October 6, 2018 So, are you feeling a burning sensation when you take a pee yet?
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