bene Posted October 7, 2018 Posted October 7, 2018 Dumping all your life problems on a stranger in one breath is not opening up, it is lack of boundaries. I think it’s a common mistake to feel somehow special or trusted if someone does that. The thing is, they might be comfortable to tell that sob story to anyone who is willing to listen. Going into a relationship with the intention of “fixing” someone is a bad idea. I think you should continue seeing her only if you want to just casually date without expectations. 1
guest569 Posted October 7, 2018 Posted October 7, 2018 Oh my god. She makes me sound sane and super positive. No way.. If she is acting this way on a first date she is not even trying to put her best foot forward. That sounds incredibly draining. A wise man once said go ahead if you just want to bang her cause crazy chicks are hawt but she ain't long term material imo. 2
Author Sentient6 Posted October 7, 2018 Author Posted October 7, 2018 With all due respect, I think a lot of your reasoning is coming from a place of sexual attraction. Oh, you're right CautiouslyOptimistic, I won't deny that. Sexual attraction is one of the things that makes me not completely give up on this one after one date. Sexual attraction and the past experiences I mentioned.
smackie9 Posted October 7, 2018 Posted October 7, 2018 Just think what will happen if you do decide to date her, then realize you need to run....hope you have good insurance that covers tires. Tip: never date anyone that's in a bad place...she's been there her whole life.
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