Andrew312 Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Ok heres my issue. Got a lovely girls number at her work a few weeks back. For some reason we seemed to click and instantly there was no awkwardness so to speak. Rang her a few days later and we set up a date for the following Friday. Had a great day and evening with her. Rang her the following Tuesday and set up Wednesday. Unfortunately she had to cancel early on Wednesday because of college commitments. Rescheduled for Sunday and went out for dinner/coffee and had a great time, talked and talked and made out a bit afterwards. All seemed great and I said I would ring her during the week with my new number as I had broken my mobile phone. Well I rang her on Tuesday, left a message and nothing, rang her Wednesday and Thursday and nothing. Sent a couple of texts as well and nothing. At first I was worried I was having problems with my new phone as some other people have had issues leaving me messages etc etc but now I am starting to wonder. Its now Thursday night and I am starting to get worried/annoyed. I sent her a text saying let me know whats happening because I do not want to keep bugging her and I hope she is ok. I just don't know whether I should keep trying her the following days or just leave it and see what she does. She did not seem at all like the kind of girl that would blow you off or at least let you know what the deal is, she is a very nice intelligent sort. I know she is always very busy with work and with collge but still, a call or message? I would prefer is she would let me know one way or another cos being rejected while feeling bad feels a lot better than not knowing what the hell is going on! She is a stunning looking girl so I really can't be sure if I am the only one dating her but considering her workload and type of person she is, I would say we have been exclusive the last few weeks. I guess I am asking advice from people who have been in similar situations. I have never been in a situation like this and used to chucke at the thought of people who were, but man now I know how it feels and I wouldnt wish it on anyone. Its really bad. Advice?
BonneChatte Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 Whoa, you need to slow down. You phoned her Tuesday, and because she didn't jump to phone and return your call right away, you kept calling and texting. Hate to say this dude, but you may have freaked her out now. No one wants a stalker. Now, I know you really dig her and all and just want everything to be cool with you guys, but you said yourself, she's really busy. Maybe she's got a big test or project due at school and just hasn't had a chance to call you. I would ring her again for a few weeks...let things cool down. If when you call in a few weeks, and you still get nothing, then chalk it up to case of rejection. I wish you the best though!
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