thewandering Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 I'll try to make a long story short. 10 years ago when I was in high school, I met this really shy girl and became friends with her. We ate lunch together every day and one day I wanted to invite her out to this dance and she immediately thought it was a date when in reality it was a group thing. We couldn't go, and afterwards she confessed her love for me, stating she never had a boyfriend before but wanted me to be her first. I turned her down because I felt she was rushing things (mind you she was pretty cute but she came off too strong). She gave me crap for several years. She created a lot of rumors about me, and I did have a dry spell when it came to relationships because she would make mine fail. She would always make it obvious when I was near by, her tone would change and I would get glares. I did try to patch things up a few years back, but she tried to lie that I assaulted her, but was dismissed by the college we attended due to no evidence and I immediately set up a meeting with the Dean of Students and set a no Contact Order against her. That didn't stop the harassment. It took years until she finally got married to leave me alone. She got her now husband involved in the past, her brother was a complete jerk by giving me nasty stares, calling me a stalker, and all and all just being stupid, and her friends were also acting up and I lost some because she would pursue my friends to spread rumors. Fast forward to recently. I got out of a long term relationship and came across a smoking hot woman who I thought was a little order (like in her 30s). She was lean and toned, and had the backside of an 18 year old. We hit it off really good and she told me she wasn't looking to getting back into a relationship because she was recently divorced, and wanted to have fun. Well I became her "boy-toy" and the sex was amazing and I got my needs met several times over. I thought it was a pretty awesome arrangement. So life started to get awesome because it's been two years since that crazy girl finally left me alone and now I'm hooking up almost every night with this stunning woman, or so I thought. She told me her daughter and husband was gonna come and pick her up and I was like "How old are you? I thought you were 33?!" and she laughed and said no, she's actually 46. Well surprise surprise her daughter knocked at my door and it turned out to be the girl who gave me hell for quite some. She flipped, and said how could her mom leave her dad for such a creepy guy, her husband came in, and was like "WTF dude, what are you doing here?" in which I said this was my place and my FWB had to calm them down and apologized. Sure enough, the stupid attitude came back worse. Her brother said I better watch my back, the girl's husband was giving me horrible looks and she gossiped about me quite a bit. I don't have to worry because I had her blocked on FB and my friendlist became private. One night, my FWB and I were laying in bed together and she was crying telling me how she married young, her husband was 10 years older than her, had money and she wished she never married the guy, that he was controlling, verbally abusive and a selfish lover. She wanted to hear my side of the story because she heard my name years ago and didn't know it was me that her daughter was constantly complaining about. I told her that her daughter and I were once friends and that she wanted to rush things. She told me she believed me because of how frequently her daughter talked about me. Like it turned out for several years I was the main topic: who I was with, my horrible outfits I would wear, how she bumped into me and tried to avoid me, my annoying voice... it was crazy. She told me that hooking up with me broke her daughter's heart and is putting a strain in their relationship. I told her I understand that if she doesn't want to keep this going I would fully support it. She told me she's conflicted because she hasn't felt this alive in a long time and that she's very happy that we get to have long conversations and that I made sure her needs were met in the bedroom, which her husband never did. Anyways we haven't broken things off yet but I don't know what to do. Can anyone offer some advice please?
lurker74 Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 Cool story bro! I don't believe a word of it but it was a fun read! If by chance there's any truth to it, run, do not walk...first, to get away from them and second to Lifetime to pitch them a script! 1
stillafool Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 If this is true she's not much of a mother to continue to hook up with you knowing her daughter's heart is broken. Can't she find another boy toy?
coolheadal Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 Baffling story line her with the ex gf and the mother who has a derriere if 30 year old but turns out to be in her 40's. Yeah that I can relate too. I had want of those type of woman who had a barbie doll body but her 3rd husband made her have the total operation to have that happen. I said wow you have a body of 20 year old! Your story is valid but in the end you going to have to leave the mom other wise deal with the crazy daughter who won't let you go because of her ego and you drop her like a dime. Might be time to move out of that town and go live and start a new life somewhere else.
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