HotShotChinez Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 Hi there! So I recently came to understand after one of my female friends stayed for a weekend at my flat that I do like her a lot, in other words more than friends... Basically nothing happened between us during the weekend as it actually was the frist time we met, but we've been pen pals for 2-3 years. Judging from her body language I could probably have gone in for a kiss, but I just couldn't make myself do it because I was nervous to do so... Always had a good eye contact, her body was open towards me most of the time and not closed and there were moments when she looked at me and I sometimes didn't notice... So this weekend I'm going up to hers and yeah, I'm going to spend the whole weekend there. Of course I want to make the best impression that I possibly can that I actually like her, but I'm feeling quite nervous and I know she has many friends which are many male friends and I obviously can't help but be jealous even though it's only friends, what do I know? So yeah be myself is always the best, but is there anything else I should think about? My head is just about her right now, it's crazy and I'm feeling a bit insecure/nervous for the weekend.. Thanks in advance!
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 I'm a little fuzzy here. You have been "pen pals" for 3 years but the 1st time you met is when she stayed at your apartment? Talk about going from 0 to 60. I have to think that if a woman is open to staying at a strange man's house, she is open to romance. Overall I'm perplexed by the level of trust between strangers. Yeah, yeah I know you have been pen pals. Doesn't matter, you still didn't know each other in real life. Anyway, where are you going to see her this weekend? Is it planned? You better make a move or this woman is going to conclude that you have friend zoned her & don't think she's attractive.
Author HotShotChinez Posted October 3, 2018 Author Posted October 3, 2018 I'm a little fuzzy here. You have been "pen pals" for 3 years but the 1st time you met is when she stayed at your apartment? Talk about going from 0 to 60. I have to think that if a woman is open to staying at a strange man's house, she is open to romance. Overall I'm perplexed by the level of trust between strangers. Yeah, yeah I know you have been pen pals. Doesn't matter, you still didn't know each other in real life. Anyway, where are you going to see her this weekend? Is it planned? You better make a move or this woman is going to conclude that you have friend zoned her & don't think she's attractive. Yep that's true! I'm surprised myself yes, my friends say the same things as you do! We got along very well and also she did say that we would see if we get along before she came down to me ) Yes I better make a move! But so nervous as well so yes we're going to see each other this weekend and it's planned, we've planned to hit some pubs and go to the cinema )
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 Don't drink too much. At least put your arm around her in the movie.
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