DKos Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Hey all. My gf broke up with me on tuesday, with an e-mail that I woke up to. A little background here. When we started dating, things were great. We would usually go out on a week day to a dinner and a movie, then on sunday nights we would take walks in the park. Then on the days we would be together, we would take for hours intho the hours of 2 or 3 in the morning. One weekend I went out of town for my brothers engagement party, we talked then. I got back Monday morning, and she was leaving for school on friday. So she was really busy with moving and paretns, so we didn't have time to see each other that week. I was gonna go up that weekend, but I had to work all day on sat and was tired on sunday to go up. We talked that monday and wed, and I told her I wanted to come up this weekend to see her, she said she would have to get back to me. Thats when the problems started. She never answered her e-mails or got back to me about coming up. I called her and she said that she was sorry for not calling because she was too busy because she is doing a double major in college, so I'm like ok. That weekend we didn't talk until sun when I called and we only talked for like 5 minutes because she had to get back to studying. So then tuesday I called her and then we talked for like 10 minutes and then had to go because she was busy. So I said to myself, well I'll let her call next time when she isn't so busy. so 3 days pass and she hasn't called or e-mailed or anything. So I give in and call. She apologizes and said she is busy. So this goes on for a week and then labor day weekend comes and she is coming back down for the weekend. So I call her firday night to talk, and she is with her parents so I ask about going out on sat night, she said that she had a wedding on sat but it should be over by 5 so she said she would call. well its 9 at night and she hasn't called, and her best friend who was at the wedding said she never came because she had to go the hospital because she had a throat infection. So I call her sunday morning to see if she is ok and she says she is fine she just feels sick, so we decide not to do anything because she doesn't want to get me sick. So she leaves monday morning back to college without us seeing each other. I talk to her best friend and she says that my gf, her, and some of their friends went to a friends house to watch a movie. So I am like what the hell is going on. I call her and tell her that I feel like I am the only one in this relationship since I am the only one calling and willing to go up and see her at college. And the thing with sunday night was messed up. She doesn't say much so we hang up. I wake up Tuesday morning to an e-mail, with her breaking up with me. Here is the e-mail. hey there. i agree, these past few weeks have been simply insane! and i really think that uhm, i think our relationship has developed into just a really good friendship. and i say this because i think it would be more fair for both of us. the last thing i want is that u get hurt. so i think its theh honest and fair thing for both of us. i do hope u can understand, i am in a weird position right now, being the one that has to say it and all, so uhm i really do hope u can understand. and i want you to know i'm still here for u and all, u know... So after that, I was depressed, barely slept, barely ate. I still love her and want to be with her. I ask her if we can talk about this and then she sends me another e-mail. hey there xxxxxx. sry but i have some things going this weekend, so i'm afraid i'll have to say i cant. so what have u been up to this week? my week was crazy. as always. hah. btu its all good. my friends here are really neat so they make it better. and those home too, are awesome l8ers I've told her how I felt and that I would like to work things out with her, to me it sounds like she is either confused or too busy for a relationship right now. I want to get back together, but I don't know what to do.
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