Idkanymorr Posted October 2, 2018 Posted October 2, 2018 (edited) Hey there, I'm atm in a rather complicated situation and I don't really know what to do and if it's even worth the time. I hope that I'll get some advice here ^_^ So to fully understand all this I need to give some backstory: I know a Girl for over 2 years now (from a Online Community) and back than we didn't get along. I'm pretty sure she hated me back than because I often made her angry etc. (intentional and not) and vise versa (or at least she tried to). She started to text with one of my better friends from RL and it seemed like she was interested in him. Later I left the OC and basically for the next few months I didn't exchange even one message with her nor didn't I know if they would keep texting each other. But at the begin of this year she wrote to me out of nowhere and I was really surprised (she caught me off guard). Obviously I didn't think much of it (thought she just wanted to piss me off or something like that) so I made her clear that I'm not interested in talking with her. Skip few months later in time and last week she wrote to me again. But this time in another tone.. She told me right of the bat that she got interested in me after I left the OC and told me that she made a huge mistake (refers to my good friend). She also said that this was her intention at the begin of the year. But now I'm thinking that if she really was interested in me, why would she wait that long to send me a message again? And now I'm here, I don't really know what to think of it. I don't know if I should take her seriously and believe what she is telling me. Because from all I know she could be just bored and thought it would be fun to tease me because tbh - Idk why she would be interested in me if she didn't know anything about me at all. The only thing she knew was how I looked like because she knew my FB. Maybe to some people the intentions of her are obvious but for me it isn't. Edited October 2, 2018 by Idkanymorr
PRW Posted October 3, 2018 Posted October 3, 2018 There's no rocket science here. 1. Contact her. 2. Make a date (the in person kind). Exact time/day/place. Your plan, you are responsible to make it happen. Not her plan, she doesn't help plan, it is on you. 3. Offer the date to her. 4. Show up at the date, without confirming. 5. If she stands you up, problem solved 6. If she shows up, you will probably know within an hourif you want to see her again,...problem solved.
USMCHokie Posted October 4, 2018 Posted October 4, 2018 Something somewhat similar happened to me. No matter what the "intention," leave the past in the past. There doesn't seem to be anything you've mentioned that would suggest that exploring this would be a good idea. If you knew each other only online, then I assume she's not local to you?
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