darkrai100 Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 So a week or two ago, I met this girl who works out at the same gym as me. She came up to me and was being very touchy and physical, considering it was the first time we actually talked. Later that night, she added me on social media and we started messaging. A week went by, and after an evening workout this past Saturday, a bunch of us went out to eat. We all happened to wear the same t-shirt made by the gym...... except for her. Coincidentally, I had bought an extra same t-shirt that day, so I figured, why not let her wear it to dinner so she won't feel left out? She gladly accepted, and off we all went to dinner. On the way, I mentioned to her that we could hangout sometime, just the two of us, to which she replied, "sure, you just have to ask me out." Later during dinner, her friends were teasing that we'd make a very good couple, and insisted that we sit together and purposely let us talk while taking pictures behind our backs. In the end, she even tried to feed me her dessert using her spoon. That night ended well, and I insisted on walking her to the metro station since she lives far from town. Fast forward a few days later. I see her at the gym, and when I walked up to her, she was acting a little.. distant. After she finished her workout, she came up to me with a plastic bag. Inside was the t-shirt I let her wear that night -- all washed and folded neatly. I thanked her and asked if she was down to grab a drink with me. She acted surprised, and asked, "What for? Why this very minute? Can it wait?" I told her that I noticed she didn't have any water, and that it didn't have to be that very minute lol. We agreed to a later time, so I went to talk to one of our friends for about half an hour just to kill time lol. During that time, I noticed she sat at the front desk by herself. When it was time to leave, we stopped at the local ATM since our friend needed to grab some cash on his way home (before me and her went to grab a drink). I walked into the ATM booth with him, but she kept on going and as I ran out to stop her, I told her to wait a second for me, but she told me "next time". What the heck? It was just a matter of seconds before our friend was finished and she couldn't wait? Is there something I'm not getting? Or maybe she had a change of heart? What do you guys think is going on?
ExpatInItaly Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 Maybe she already had a date lined up that day.
RedHead5 Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 Maybe she already had a date lined up that day. I was thinking the same.
preraph Posted October 2, 2018 Posted October 2, 2018 Either had another date or she could have decided she wasn't interested after all. She should have just said, "Sorry, got to go, I have plans." You know, it's also possible with the group outings and all that she has her eye on someone else in that group and didn't like them prodding you two together as a couple.
SunnyWeather Posted October 2, 2018 Posted October 2, 2018 or maybe she didn't like being left by herself on the street or, maybe she didn't like having a 3rd person. who knows. How about you ask her out on a proper date?
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