Haleyxmouse Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 We were only seeing one another not actually in a relationship. I haven’t seen or spoken to this guy in a few months and we haven’t seen one another since January. We ended, he got a girlfriend that I knew and everyone knew I did not like her prior to them not going out. Lots of people were convinced it was to get me jealous. He started doing things that he claimed he still wasn’t into me like swipe right on tinder (yes while he had a girlfriend and she knows about this but refuses to do anything about it). His girlfriend also has always been threatened by me and when she initially found out he was cheating on her she thought it was with me (it wasn’t). He also told her that if things would have went his way and I would have had sex, we would have probably been in a relationship instead of them. We ended everything a year ago. I hadn’t posted anything in over a month and he ended up unfriending me. Which pretty much means he was thinking of me and went out of his way to unfriend me unless it was her. Then I saw him today at church. He was with his family and girlfriend. He was sitting 2 rows directly in front of me. She ended up leaving before the end of the service. At the end of each service they tell you to meet someone new. I literally pretended like I did not see him. When he turned to shake peoples hands I noticed from the corner of my eye that he did see me. You could tell he got unsettled. He literally ran to the other staircase to avoid being near me. You could just see the confusion in his moms face. Right after ending things he started telling people he ended it and I was clingy and too much drama, when I actually had stopped speaking to everyone associated. After we ended things and tried to keep things friendly despite saying things behind my back he would always tell me “I would only do this for you” and “I love you” but would try to back it up with “like a brother”. He would literally say all these flirty things even after he got in a relationship and I would always be told the reason they were always unsettled around me was because he tried to tell her she should be more like me and at one point this dude literally recited my order from my favorite fast food restaurant. I’m trying to move on which is why I paid no attention to it but I’m just curious why did he run the other way when he was the one who hurt me? Don’t tell me that if I’m trying to move on why am I concerned! I’m just genuinely curious. Like it’s been a year. I’m over it just curious why he’s like this.
basil67 Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 He saw you pretending not to see him, so he decided the way of least drama was to head the other direction. Pretty simple really.
smackie9 Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 He's a coward. He ran because he won't face the mess he has made out of fear of confrontation/drama. He's a manipulator and lies....I don't think church is doing very much for him.
coolheadal Posted October 1, 2018 Posted October 1, 2018 You've move on, your ex still remembers and can't forget. Shouldn't hate should love no matter what happens in life. Too much hate hurts.. Well you go on with your life and don't make the ex actions trouble you in anyway! 1
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