gracie8 Posted September 29, 2018 Posted September 29, 2018 So on Thursday night. My boyfriend and I finally met up after a week of space that he asked for, which turned out to be a test. I usually chase after him when he pushes me away but this time I respected his wishes and he said I didn’t bother to check on him when it was his decision to have space. But that’s not the reason we broke up. He broke up with me that night because I took a picture of the guy doing my toes about a week ago and sent it to my cousin because she would’ve thought he was cute. The picture was captioned with “ he’s kinda cute” and I honestly just meant it as something so harmless and he just exploded and broke up with me. We’ve been dating for 2 years. How do you just end it over something like that? And it made me so angry cause he’s cheated and I forgave him. He’s compared me to women right in front of us. He called me multiple names and accused me for cheating because of the picture.
Mardelis Posted September 29, 2018 Posted September 29, 2018 A better question might be why would you want to be with a person who treats you this way? Perhaps you've never experienced a healthy relationship before, but they lack name calling, hot and cold silent treatment game playing and testing, accusations of cheating, and um, cheating. 1
Lotsgoingon Posted September 29, 2018 Posted September 29, 2018 He's messing with your head. You forgave him for cheating ... OK, that means zero tolerance. If someone breaks up with you for something foolish, the truth simple: they didn't really want to be with you ... and they just used any pretext as an excuse. Quit asking how come he reacted to something innocent? That's a naive question. He reacted that way because he wants to break up and he wants to treat you like a jerk. You've received clear information on what kind of person this is, time to protect yourself ... let him go ... and count your blessings. Continuing with this guy will only bring more heartache.
BC1980 Posted September 29, 2018 Posted September 29, 2018 He's just using that as an excuse to break up with you.
preraph Posted September 29, 2018 Posted September 29, 2018 Cheaters always assume everyone else does exactly what they do, which is seize a good opportunity to cheat. Why you want an irrational cheater back? 1
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