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My ex gf sexted me, I don’t know what it means


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So I broke it off with this girl who was my friend for 4 years, and we were hooking up. I started to develop feelings and it scared me. So I ended it. She moved to a different state and we hadn’t spoken for a year. A few weeks ago I drunk text her a pic of my dick saying I missed her and the sex. She sent me a funny but clearly rejection reply.

 

But then 3 weeks ago she sends me “so your text kinda caught me off guard. But it did make my panties wet. So here’s one for you and she sends me a butt pic. Nothing crazy. I text back “you can do better than that! lol I was hammered drunk which is what the dick pic was all about. Hope you’re well!” I see her typing but then no reply for 2 hours so I then text “How is Chicago?” And I send another dick pic. She replies and we catch up a little. She says it’s alright but she misses our city, she’s moving back soon. We then end up sexting like we did when we were together. I send her videos she sends me videos. Half way though I stop and say “are you sure you’re not nearby?” She says “I wish I was” I then say “I’d **** you for several hours.” She replies “damn, I want you so bad” I continue with “you’d cum 6 times like never before, do you prefer when I eat you out or **** you? She replies and then we reminisce about how good the sex was.

 

The thing is I don’t know what that was. It confuses things. Do I wait for her to reach out or do I say something?

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She sounds -- we'll be charitable and say "lonely."

 

I mean, she's moving back. Don't know what your relationship was like or why you broke up, but it doesn't sound hopeless if you want any type of relationship or sex.

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Clearly she's interested in hooking up again. If you have feelings for her you need to establish that you're both on the same page though before you spend much more time together.

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Why does she has to be “lonely” why can’t she just be missing for me? She’s a really hot girl with a lot going for her. Doubt she’s lonely. Guys throw themselves at her

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I agree we need to establish more time together, that’s not how I wanted our first interaction to go. Should I wait for her to reach out again? I don’t know where her head was at that night

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It means she's wants you back as a FWB when she returns.

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Yea that’s what I was thinking. She was once in love with me and I’m the idiot that pushed her away do you think she could want to have sex bc she wants a relationship with me?

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Meet up with her when you get the chance, do your thing, and if she wants more she will bring the subject up. Probably best you avoid talking about feelings or relationships via text.

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Fk me , are you bragging or what , do we really need all the nitty gritty bs with it.

l mean wtf is wrong with you telling the whole world your private bs , l think we might know what sexting is so , yaknow.

 

ya caught each other in a desperate moment , simple.

goes with the territory in splitting up with someone.

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She just wants to smash again, that is all.

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Wait for her to reach out. While you're waiting, write a few porn novels. You'd be good at it.

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HE dumped her and she has already reached out so it is up to him to make the next move.

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Wait for her to reach out. While you're waiting, write a few porn novels. You'd be good at it.

 

 

If that's the best he's got, he's better publish under a pseudonym. It didn't do a thing for me. Sorry.

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If that's the best he's got, he's better publish under a pseudonym. It didn't do a thing for me. Sorry.

 

 

Didn't really so anything for me either but I couldn't make the joke work if I said "Use the down time to write porn novels nobody will read".

 

 

Then again that's probably funnier than my first attempt.

 

 

Never mind

 

 

(I tried to LIKE your post but it doesn't change to UNLIKE after I clicked it so I clicked it again and it's not doing anything but I did LIKE it just so you know, somethings up with the LIKE system on this forum)

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(I tried to LIKE your post but it doesn't change to UNLIKE after I clicked it so I clicked it again and it's not doing anything but I did LIKE it just so you know, somethings up with the LIKE system on this forum)

 

I know. My self esteem is highly dependent on the number of likes I get here. Since the system's not working, I just get up every day and tell myself there were no less than 25, they're just not showing up. :laugh:

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