Is my ex girlfriend (and coworker) interested or playing with me?

[LonelyGuy8]

My ex girlfriend seems to flirt more and more with me at work. I have told her I don't want any contact with her outside the job. I broke up with her two months ago. Because I didn't feel her love anymore. It was like dating a friend.

 

This week she have been extremly flirty I guess. Or maybe I'm just overanalyze everything. I started to forget her, but now I think about her 24/7. Maybe that's what she wants.

 

This week she wanted to hang out with me this weekend. I said I don't have time, maybe another day. That's was a lie. I could hang out with her if I wanted to. But I don't know her attention. I still love her and don't want to get hurt.

 

She is very popular woman. She told me this week that she was out last weekend, and a couple of guys gave her their phone number. I don't know why she told me this. Good for her.

 

Almost everyday this week she started to walk with me. Before she barely said goodbye to me. She always walked the regular way. But not this week. I live not far from work, so don't need to drive. But she lives half a mile from me. I asked her why she walking with me this way. She said she wanted to take another way, because the old way is so boring.

 

Everytime I notice her looking at me (that's very often) she looks away. But she smiles often. She making jokes and she laugh when I joking with her. I've tried to hold eye contact with her, but she always look away. But she had no problems keep eye contact with other coworkers.

 

But I don't know if she just playing with me. She can be together with a new guy today if she wanted to. I'm not the most handsome guy. She can be together with a guy who looks a lot better with me. That's the truth. But I know she love my sense of humour, my kindness and caring and she said before when we were together that she can be herself with me. She feels comfortable with me she said.

 

Like I said she looks away when I notice her looking at me. When we were together we could hold eye contact for a long time, but not now.

 

At work she always try to sit near me. If possible. She is even more warm and flirty to me now, than when we were together. Except for the sex part of course.

 

One more thing. She still give me nicknames, like she did when we were together.

 

I don't know if she wants to be together again or if she playing with me. She can be together with someone else today if she wanted to.

[Orokotikki]

Look my gut says you would be well to avoid her entirely, but I'm curious how long you were together, who ended it, etc?

 

She told you she got other guys numbers to try to make you jealous obviously.

It sounds like a game won by not playing.

[Zahara]

Ask her. We can't tell you what her true intentions are unless you ask her where her head is.

 

Aside, if you don't implement boundaries then she's going to behave the way she wants. It seems like you are open to her gestures so she's likely enjoying the attention.