jjb117 Posted September 27, 2018 Posted September 27, 2018 This is kind of a weird situation so I’ll explain. I met this girl about a week and a half ago and I asked her out. At first, she canceled. She said it’s because our colleges are very far apart (40 minutes) and that she would want to see me more than once a week. I said I understood, and that was that. Plot twist, we ended up seeing each other the next day and let me tell you I had the time of my life. We clicked from the start. What was supposed to be just dinner ended up being me staying over at her place. And while I was there, she treated me so well. She loved everything about me, and I ended up intentionally missing the train twice just so I could be there just a bit longer. What gets me though is that she brought up the distance dilemma again. Though she plans on coming here this weekend, in the back of my head I feel like I might be...wasting my time? I haven’t felt this way about a girl since my ex. It’s not because I haven’t dated a lot in between, because I have (I had 5 flings between these two) but because I could talk to her for hours and not get bored. Should I just take it day by day and then bring it up if we start dating for more than a month?
kendahke Posted September 27, 2018 Posted September 27, 2018 Should I just take it day by day and then bring it up if we start dating for more than a month? What's the alternative? This is pretty much what you have to work with until things unfold in their own time.
Author jjb117 Posted September 28, 2018 Author Posted September 28, 2018 What's the alternative? This is pretty much what you have to work with until things unfold in their own time. That seems like the logical approach. I’m just filled with excitement and joy, and I haven’t stopped smiling since last Friday. I know it’s infatuation, but it still feels nice.
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