Jh23 Posted September 26, 2018 Posted September 26, 2018 My girlfriend has said so many times that she wants to end it, that we aren't compatible and that she feels uncomfortable sometimes around me. She always comes back and after a while she gives me a half hearted apology. Not before I have apologised though. Last time I told her that if she told me it was over again I would take her at her word. This was two days ago. I last heard from her yesterday when she said she was going to delete my number. However I'm still on her WhatsApp so she clearly didn't. Will she come back..? If she does come back am I wasting my time? I can't cope with the rollercoaster of being dumped everytime we have a slight disagreement. Should i just get on with my life? I know running after her will get me nowhere.
basil67 Posted September 26, 2018 Posted September 26, 2018 Yes, it's time to move on. Not only because your girlfriend doesn't want to be with you (if she really wanted to be in a relationship with you, she wouldn't keep saying she wants to end it) - but because you gave an ultimatum. If you go back on your ultimatum you will lose ever shred of credibility you have. Delete and block her. As you pre-warned her of this outcome, you don't need to explain a thing.
d0nnivain Posted September 26, 2018 Posted September 26, 2018 this break up make up cycle is highly dysfunctional. She you already said this last end will be the final end, be a man of your word & you delete her from everything. Problem solved. 1
preraph Posted September 26, 2018 Posted September 26, 2018 Love and relationships should be more fun than anxiety-making. Some people aren't good at relationships. A relationship that is worth having is one in which you're having fun and looking forward to the coming days together. If it's too much of a struggle, it's often one of those cases of you love each other but you're not compatible on a domestic level. You can think the moon of someone and still not be able to tolerate living with them for one reason or another.
kendahke Posted September 26, 2018 Posted September 26, 2018 My girlfriend has said so many times that she wants to end it, that we aren't compatible and that she feels uncomfortable sometimes around me. She always comes back and after a while she gives me a half hearted apology. Not before I have apologised though. Last time I told her that if she told me it was over again I would take her at her word. This was two days ago. I last heard from her yesterday when she said she was going to delete my number. However I'm still on her WhatsApp so she clearly didn't. Will she come back..? If she does come back am I wasting my time? I can't cope with the rollercoaster of being dumped everytime we have a slight disagreement. Should i just get on with my life? I know running after her will get me nowhere. Act on what you know, not what you wished would be. Do you want this to be over or do you want to keep on with this silly dysfunction and her game playing? Figure that out and you'll know what to do. I wouldn't be waiting for her to block you on Whatsapp---do it yourself. Take some initiative yourself instead of being at the mercy of her decision. She's already said she doesn't want to be with you, so why are you still hanging around?
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