MitchConnor Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 im 27 yo male. i went on on a bar crawl, met a girl, we hit it off talking, she seemed into me, her and her friend needed to go (it was like 2am), i got her number. The day after next (which was yesterday) i text her, no reply. Ive read online diff opinions, some say if this happens i should try texting again, others say forget about her, whats ur guy's opinions?
PegNosePete Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 I wouldn't bother. She's either not interested, or gave you a fake number. Either way, texting again won't help. Next time when you get a number, read it back but deliberately make a mistake. For example if she says her number is 07123 456 789, read it back as 07123 456 798. If she correct you, she genuinely wants to hear from you. If not, she's giving you a fake to get rid of you. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 Don't text her again. If she's interested, you'll hear from her. As Pete points out, it could have been a fake number too. I admit that I did that a couple times, when I was much younger and immature and didn't have the stones to be honest that I wasn't interested in chatting again. It's not the way to handle things, but it does happen.
MaleIntuition Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 Nothing to do. On the other hand, trying again will not hurt... I think you should have texted much, much sooner in this case, keep some of that momentum going!
d0nnivain Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 Give it 48 hours, then reach out 1 more time but only once more. It may have been a fake #. She may not be interested. She may not know who the <bleep> you are. If you don't hear back after the 2nd attempt, delete her from your contacts & move on. If by chance you do see her out again, you can try striking up a conversation again but that is leaving things to chance. 1
coolheadal Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 im 27 yo male. i went on on a bar crawl, met a girl, we hit it off talking, she seemed into me, her and her friend needed to go (it was like 2am), i got her number. The day after next (which was yesterday) i text her, no reply. Ive read online diff opinions, some say if this happens i should try texting again, others say forget about her, whats ur guy's opinions? Easy said or done.. What should do in these situations next time. While she gives you her number you test it out by calling her cell right there on the spot. If it's a real number her cell would ring? If it was a fake number it won't. Then you just get yourself out of there ASAP! You have to text or call them up to show that you are interested in them, otherwise don't expect her to call you . Next try what I suggested. Good Luck
PRW Posted September 25, 2018 Posted September 25, 2018 Give it 48 hours, then reach out 1 more time but only once more. It may have been a fake #. She may not be interested. She may not know who the <bleep> you are. If you don't hear back after the 2nd attempt, delete her from your contacts & move on. If by chance you do see her out again, you can try striking up a conversation again but that is leaving things to chance. You took the words out of my mouth,...or yanked them out from under my fingers
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