AndrewJ Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 Hey Shackers after some needed advice please. My sister just left to go overseas last Monday. Her boyfreind who is my mate were having beers on saturday arvo, he mentioned that he didnt know where there relationship was as she will be over seas for a couple o months. However my sister has given him her car and mobile phone. Night goes on we go out get drunk we went seperate ways. Next morning im talking to him on messenger and he tells me he brought home some beautiful woman. So i get a bit brotherly what the ****. Like a coouple o days shes been away and your alreday taking skanks home. But he said we just talked ...yeah right! So today I was talking to my sis on messenger and asked her if they were split up. She was surprised to my question and said as far as im concerened we are still commmiteed to each other. So i get an abusive text from my so called freind saying "whta the fack are u doing stirring **** up with jane. What the do i do? I didnt tell my sis anything i just asked her whether they were still together. The bad thing is we work together my sis boyfreind and I.
tolongaway Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 This is a hard one for you because either way you will look like the bad guy. I have been cheated on before and if I found out my sister new and did not tell me I would be furious. Mind you if I was dating a friend of my sister and my sister found out this, "so called fiend" was cheating on me she would beat the hell out of her. If it were me I would get the car and cell back. Tell my sister and weather the storm. You are not loosing a friend by loosing this idiot - what type of friend would think it was ok to cheat on your sister and call you up to brag about it.
bluechocolate Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 So i get an abusive text from my so called Friend saying "what the fack are u doing stirring **** up with Jane. You're not f***ing up anything - it's your mate being the jerk. If he's not smart enough to realise that you would feel protective about your own sis then that means he's a stupid a$$ jerk to boot. Tell him exactly what you asked your sister. There was no harm in the question as your mate seemed to be a bit confused about it himself. If it were me I would get the car and cell back. Tell my sister and weather the storm. You are not loosing a friend by loosing this idiot - what type of friend would think it was OK to cheat on your sister and call you up to brag about it.
Author AndrewJ Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 Cheers peoples, Situation just annoys me so bad! Like why did he think telling me about this other chick was a good thing? So frustrating:mad:
alphamale Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 no matter what you do in this situation you will get the short end of the stick and lose. I suggest you keep your mouth shut because this is a Lose-Lose situation for you.
Author AndrewJ Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 Keep my mouth shut alpha? Im just doing the noble thing. Very weird ****
bluechocolate Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 Keep my mouth shut alpha? Telling your sister is a tough call, but I don't see how you can't & get her car & mobile phone back. Good luck.
JS17 Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 Telling your sister is a tough call, but I don't see how you can't & get her car & mobile phone back. Good luck. Ditto, sorry Andrew J, tough situation. There's no question as to whose side you should be on. Your sister will be your sister forever and your loyalties should lie with her. Good luck dude.
FWIW Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 So he knows where he stands, tell the guy (nice and calmly without making a fuss) you don't ever want to be in difficult situation between the two of them - it's nothing personal but your loyalty lies with your sis.. if you were to ever find out (in future) that he'd done anything she'd want to know about, you WILL tell her. Say it with a smile, that's just the way it is... if he *IS* planning to do that sort of thing he'd better be discrete about it (so it's doesn't become any of your business) and let him know that he'd better not tell you about it because you'd rather not know.. but once you *do* ever know, so will your sis. If he argues with that he's an idiot! Good luck
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