cosis Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 My ex who broke up with me about a month ago is suddenly emailing me telling how much she misses and still has feeling for me. She deleted my # from her address book because she said she didn't have any will power not to call me. I don't understand if she say's all this stuff why is she afraid to talk to me? I know she is going through a lot right now, 2 kid's and a divorce proceeding. I guess that could make her a little stand-offish. I really liked this girl but I don't want to be led on............
Candy Cane Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well, tell her that. Tell her that you really like her but do not want to be lead on. Tell her that if she misses you and wants to get back together that things will need to go slow this time so that you can regain some trust in her. And do just that. Don't go moving in and I don't recommend being intimate either. If you do that, you're going to feel worse if you realize that she's only using you for comfort. Limit your telephone calls and get togethers to just a couple times a week. Make it quality time. It's old fashioned...but it works. In summary, go slow to see how serious she really is about her feelings.
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