Sully0013 Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 So, my boyfriend and I often get into small arguments that really don't mean much. But here lately he has been fight hard in public in front of our many friends. I've told him over and over that I do not like this and that if he wants to talk we should do it in private. This is ridiculous. Opinions?
Imajerk17 Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 (edited) So, my boyfriend and I often get into small arguments that really don't mean much. But here lately he has been fight hard in public in front of our many friends. I've told him over and over that I do not like this and that if he wants to talk we should do it in private. This is ridiculous. Opinions? You teach others how they should treat you. It seems to be that your boyfriend has always been a jerk to you and yet you still put up with it giving him more and more chances even though you already told him all these times how much it bothers you and rightfully so [two-week break where he goes and sleeps w someone else at this time notwithstanding]. So there you go. Harsh but true.... Edited September 18, 2018 by Imajerk17 1
basil67 Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 So, my boyfriend and I often get into small arguments that really don't mean much. But here lately he has been fight hard in public in front of our many friends. I've told him over and over that I do not like this and that if he wants to talk we should do it in private. This is ridiculous. Opinions? Sully, in another thread posted today, you said that you'd just got back together after being broken up. While your boyfriend may well be lacking in decorum, you have shown that you're OK with it because you returned to him knowing that he continues to do it. What kind of things are the two of you fighting over anyway? Tell us the topic of the last two public fights you had. 2
BaileyB Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 So, my boyfriend and I often get into small arguments that really don't mean much. But here lately he has been fight hard in public in front of our many friends. I've told him over and over that I do not like this and that if he wants to talk we should do it in private. This is ridiculous. Opinions? If you do not want to fight in front of all your friends, and he refuses to wait and have a reasonable discussion with you in private, you have another choice you can make... I can't imagine your friends were really pleased with the fact that they were required to witness your boyfriends poor behavior either. 1
basil67 Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 I can't imagine your friends were really pleased with the fact that they were required to witness your boyfriends poor behavior either. Yep, we had friends who did this. They were too unpleasant to be around so they stopped getting invites. 1
Lotsgoingon Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 Opinions? The question is: what is your opinion? This ain't exactly a hard question to think about. 1
kendahke Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 So, my boyfriend and I often get into small arguments that really don't mean much. But here lately he has been fight hard in public in front of our many friends. I've told him over and over that I do not like this and that if he wants to talk we should do it in private. This is ridiculous. Opinions? When he starts fighting in public, do you join in or do you stop immediately? If you have to tell someone repeatedly to stop doing something, then they're not interested in listening to you or accommodating your request--he intends upon being messy beyond belief and embarrassing himself and you in public. Question now becomes: why do you stay with someone who is dedicated to embarrassing you in public like this? 1
bathtub-row Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 He isn’t the guy for you. Those are basic manners and you’re not going to instill them in him at this stage. This is a very big deal, a big red flag. I hope you’ll examine why you’re hanging on to this guy. You can do WAY better than this. 1
smackie9 Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 First off you have to figure out why you fight, not what about. Then work from there.
bathtub-row Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 First off you have to figure out why you fight, not what about. Then work from there. I’m guessing that it doesn’t matter why. He’s doing it to control her.
clia Posted September 19, 2018 Posted September 19, 2018 Why are you dating someone who you fight with so often?
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