Author an0nym0us123 Posted September 18, 2018 Author Posted September 18, 2018 (edited) Yeah i know. She wanted it to be a secret with us for about a month but i stretched it out to 3 for several reasons. She was into me. For a whole year. I know that. I could hardly even kiss her for the first 2 months because she would burst into giggles. She was in love with me but maybe it got boring for her. Who knows Edited September 18, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed quote
frigginlost Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 Please explain why. I was dumped at the same time as she became single. I had very few feelings for my ex and neither did she. Please explain why i am not relationship material? The problem with forums is it's tough to piece things together based on the info given. My only question would be, did your girlfriend dump you because she was keen to what was happening with you and the new girl, or was it just a relationship that ran its course? If it's the latter, then I'd say you're fine as relationship material. I'm not changing my opinion of your recent ex though. She's is not relationship material at all. Extremely selfish people rarely are.
Author an0nym0us123 Posted September 18, 2018 Author Posted September 18, 2018 (edited) my previous girlfriend left me for another man 3 days after my last ex left her boyfriend. I was not leading my last ex on at all because i had a gf even though i knew it would not last. Also my last ex was still in a relationship. And i was keeping out. I knew she liked me but i did not lead her on. She had no idea i would even take her when she left Edited September 18, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed quote
ExpatInItaly Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 Yeah i know. She wanted it to be a secret with us for about a month but i stretched it out to 3 for several reasons. She was into me. For a whole year. I know that. I could hardly even kiss her for the first 2 months because she would burst into giggles. She was in love with me but maybe it got boring for her. Who knows That's a little odd for an adult, OP. She sounds like a high-school girl who was giddy with a crush and into the idea of being in a relationship and marriage and babies and whatever else, but she also sounds quite childish and immature. Your investment was deeper than hers, or she wouldn't have dumped you for your best friend. How is she, anyway?
Author an0nym0us123 Posted September 18, 2018 Author Posted September 18, 2018 (edited) I assume you mean how old? 20. Im 10 years older. I know i will be jumped on now but she did seem mature most of the time. The guy shes with now is the same age as me. Her age may be the big problem. My fault for having faith in someone so young. Lots of age gap couples around here though. All i can say is she was chasing me for the whole year we were together and pouring out love and affection. She claimed a month after breaking up that she thought i lost interest. Which i didnt. I just backed off as she had in the final weeks. She said i should have told her what i was thinking and it would have helped. Edited September 18, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed quote
ExpatInItaly Posted September 18, 2018 Posted September 18, 2018 Yes, I meant how old is she. She's too young for you, at this time of her life. And I say that as someone in age-gap relationship myself, though I'm 37 and my partner is older. 10 years might not seem like a lot, but it is at you respective ages. You two are at very different points of your life. She's barely out of her teen years, and her behaviour reflects that. It will be a long while before she's really ready to settle down. Sure, she chased you for a while. And now she's on the next. She's young and off having her fun and living it up, without giving a damn what anyone thinks or who she might hurt along the way.
Author an0nym0us123 Posted September 18, 2018 Author Posted September 18, 2018 (edited) I agree. I have to bear responsibility for that and my decision to go with her. I dont regret it though. We did have a great time. If she had been 25 things may have worked out for us. Edited September 18, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed quote
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