Author confused..... Posted September 14, 2005 Author Posted September 14, 2005 RR, what is your advise, wait another few days?
ReluctantRomeo Posted September 14, 2005 Posted September 14, 2005 RR, what is your advise, wait another few days? OK, here are the options. In my order of preference: 1. Give up romantically on this girl. Stop contacting her. Be unavailable at least half the times she tries to contact you. Don't be unfriendly or mean, just move on. If she asks, just say you're moving on - tell her you like her a little bit too much and are taking space from her for at least the next few months. If she can't respect this, cut contact. 2. If you can't do 1 and still want romance, then play it ultracool. Let her do the chasing - she should be phoning you way more than you phone her. In the meantime, find other things to do to fill your life - hobbies, friends, self-improvement.
Author confused..... Posted September 14, 2005 Author Posted September 14, 2005 she called a few days ago and i didn't answer, she left a message, again, I know she won't have her phone on between x and x this evening, thinking of calling and leaving her a message.
Dean3922 Posted September 14, 2005 Posted September 14, 2005 1. Give up romantically on this girl. Stop contacting her. Be unavailable at least half the times she tries to contact you. Don't be unfriendly or mean, just move on. If she asks, just say you're moving on - tell her you like her a little bit too much and are taking space from her for at least the next few months. If she can't respect this, cut contact. I strongly recommend this option. If she can't accept it then she was never your true friend. Your love is blinding your perception of her.
Skippy Posted September 15, 2005 Posted September 15, 2005 You all gotta stop sending reponses to these trolls lurking everywhere. If can identify them, just dont answer.
Author confused..... Posted September 15, 2005 Author Posted September 15, 2005 Skippy I have no idea what you are talking about. BUt none the less, i called "sally" and left her a message last night, light and breezy. She called me right back. I didn't answer and the jist of her message was "i am very excited you called".
Author confused..... Posted September 16, 2005 Author Posted September 16, 2005 Well obvioulsy skippy convinced you all, i was a "troll". Thanks but I am not a "troll", i am someone who was looking for advice and appreciated what I got. Now due to Skippy, I have none. Who is the real troll now--Skippy
Author confused..... Posted September 19, 2005 Author Posted September 19, 2005 Ok so today, after 2 weeks I finally caught up on the phone with "sally". She had tried to contact me after about a week, and I waited a few days before I called her back. I planned my calls when I knew she wouldn't be around her phone, she called me back each time. We spoke for 45 minutes just about everything, nothing about her and i at all though. But it ended weird, her telling me we would catch up soon and 2 have a good week. To be honest that was weird, we went from speaking everynight for 9 months, to this....and honestly i hate it.
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