chichi Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Just Off The Bat I Would Like To Say This Is Not Chichi....i Am Her Best Friend And I Had A Problem And She Told Me To Come Here And Use Her User Id. So Here Is My Problem...i Have Been Dating This Guy For About 3 Years. We Have Been Doing Really Well For That 3 Years Never Had Any Issues That Were Major. Well About 4 Months Ago We Moved Back To Our Hometown And Currently We Are Both Living With Our Parents. The Other Night Me And Him Were Hanging Out And It Was About 1:00am Well I Decided To Go Home Instead Of Going Out So I Told Him To Call Me In About 30 Min Because That Is How Long It Takes For Me To Get Home. Well He Called Me Abou 10 Min Later And Was Asking Me If I Was Really Going Home Or Not And I Said Yes Not Thinking Anything Was Wrong He Just Wanted To Know Well He Calls Me The Next Day And I Didnt Think Anything Was Wrong Until I Got A Phone Call From One Of My Really Good Friends Saying She Saw Him At A Local Bar And Also Heard He Stayed With His Ex That Night...which Let Me Add His Ex G/f That Is Still Madly In Love With Him Was There. I Didnt Say I Knew Anything I Just Asked Him What He Did That Night...he Lied And Said Nothing That He Stayed At Home. So I Told Him What I Knew And Broke Up With Him Because I Gave Him The Chance To Tell Me The Truth And He Didnt. Well After That He Didnt Call For About A Week But I Kept Getting Phones Calls From His Ex Telling Me That He Stayed Over There But They Didnt Have Sex And That I Was Over Reacting. So I Confronted Him And He Said That It Was All Bull$hit And That He Loves Me And Wanted To Be With Me.. I Dont Know What To Do About This...if She Was Lieing Than She Would Have Not Only Said He Stayed There But They Had Sex As Well...so I Dont Understand Why She Would Lie About It.....please Give Me Advice On What I Should Do....i Never Had A Trust Issue With Him Until This. He Wants To Be With Me But I Dont Now If I Can Trust Him Or Not.
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 OK, 1. He lied to you. He obviously didn't want you to know he went out. Probably b/c he went there with his ex. 2. He's hanging out with his ex. Staying at her house. So what if their not having sex. If she's sill madly in love with him, He's a guy, she'll throw herself on him, He's not going to stay off. I think you have your run-of-the-mill dirty lying BF. Clean break up. You should get over him in a month. LEAVE HIM AND DON'T TURN BACK! Let me ask you this. What good can come out of this? If his ex is still around, nothing. She will try to get him back. And now that he lied to you, waht else did he lie about? Who knows.....
AmberAriesMom Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Let the bugger go! You don't need to be tied up in wondering if he's lying or not. Of course, he's going to say the other person lied. And maybe they did....but later on if you find you HE's the one who lied you're going to feel like a tool! It's not worth it!
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