Is this a healthy and loving relationship

[Linaa]

My sister got into a little fight with her boyfriend. For the past few days she had been hinting to him on Facebook that she wanted the two of them to go away to a little hotel and just enjoy each other like they do in the memes/pictures she sees on Facebook. I guess they were finally going to do it but somehow she found out about him texting or talking to other girls. He got on Facebook put on show, saying things like I will always love you, I didn’t think it would end like this, I’m Not Perfect but you let the bad thing about me get in thw way of the good thing we had going, just spent all this money for nothing, when you ready to Come just come you know where I’m at, I’ll be waiting. Then she shared a post about how “Niggas” always respect the hoes but now a down ass loyal female blah blah. She was on FaceTime with me, taking to me about it upset and three hours later she still met up with him at the hotel I guess. They live together so I don’t know why they just didn’t text each other instead of putting their business on Facebook. It just doesn’t seem healthy or seem like real love to me. I love her but they’re both being crazy. I care about my sister but she got with a guy in a dishonest way. When they began talking he had a girl and she knew. His ex ended up being hurt in the process. It’s just all a mess.

[MaleIntuition]

My sister got into a little fight with her boyfriend. For the past few days she had been hinting to him on Facebook that she wanted the two of them to go away to a little hotel and just enjoy each other like they do in the memes/pictures she sees on Facebook. I guess they were finally going to do it but somehow she found out about him texting or talking to other girls. He got on Facebook put on show, saying things like I will always love you, I didn’t think it would end like this, I’m Not Perfect but you let the bad thing about me get in thw way of the good thing we had going, just spent all this money for nothing, when you ready to Come just come you know where I’m at, I’ll be waiting. Then she shared a post about how “Niggas” always respect the hoes but now a down ass loyal female blah blah. She was on FaceTime with me, taking to me about it upset and three hours later she still met up with him at the hotel I guess. They live together so I don’t know why they just didn’t text each other instead of putting their business on Facebook. It just doesn’t seem healthy or seem like real love to me. I love her but they’re both being crazy. I care about my sister but she got with a guy in a dishonest way. When they began talking he had a girl and she knew. His ex ended up being hurt in the process. It’s just all a mess.

 

Your “sister” are in a childish relationship. Loving and and healthy are subjective, although most would probably agree that good communication is key to at least healthy.

 

You’ve already asked about this? And about “romantic” Miami-trips..? What are you really asking?

[ExpatInItaly]

This sounds like a couple teenagers. How old are they?

 

As MaleIntuition pointed out, you had another thread asking about couple vacations. Is this related to the post in this thread? I don't really get why you're so curious about others' relationships.

[BaileyB]

My sister got into a little fight with her boyfriend. She found out about him texting or talking to other girls. He got on Facebook put on show, saying things like I will always love you, I didn’t think it would end like this, I’m Not Perfect but you let the bad thing about me get in the way of the good thing we had going.

 

Clearly, he is not a man to be trusted.

 

And, it's very childish and immature of bohpth of them to have this "discussion" on Facebook.

[stillafool]

First off your sister's post makes her sound like a racist. It's best not to get involved or give too much thought to others relationships because couples break up, you get involved to try to help, then they go back together and start to resent your efforts. Just let them be.

[hippychick3]

Of course this is not a healthy relationship for “your sister.”

 

What makes you in the slightest way think it is?

[Gaeta]

I will always remember when I was little my mom told me our most sincere tears we keep to ourselves.

[stillafool]

Your “sister” are in a childish relationship. Loving and and healthy are subjective, although most would probably agree that good communication is key to at least healthy.

 

You’ve already asked about this? And about “romantic” Miami-trips..? What are you really asking?

 

Me thinks OP is the sister.

[Zahara]

They live together so I don’t know why they just didn’t text each other instead of putting their business on Facebook.

 

They live together so why don't they text each other instead of posting on FB? I had to read that twice They can't speak to each other face to face? Texting is a more reasonable way to communicate you think?

 

All seems childish and immature. It's apparent neither your sister nor her boyfriend should be in a relationship.

[smackie9]

Whatever your sister does, is none of your concern, it's her life. If she wants to spend her time with jerkass BF or date dbags, that's her business. My solution is to turn off your phone and go do something productive, like go out and enjoy an evening with your sister, go see a movie. Be kind to her, and don't talk about her relationship bs.

[kendahke]

So your sister is the rebound chick with a guy whose relationship she didn't respect... I say just smile and tell her to enjoy the bed she made.