rcrljmg07 Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 So my girlfriend of 11 months, we haven’t been on best terms lately Some fights etc I had a drinking issue which she knows about and knew it was hard for me to get over, confided in her many times about it. Well she sends me a video about her day and in the video she’s drinking wine, and straight from the bottle.... and when I say something she says it’s consescending, she even said before she sent it I know you won’t approve of this. I mean do I have a right to be turned off and like what the hell
Gaeta Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 I mean do I have a right to be turned off and like what the hell Amazing you don't think this is enough disrespect toward you to break up. Not only she knows your struggles with alcohol but she doesn't care at all of the repercussions and plays with it. How is that ever turned into a good gf and a good relationship? 1
smackie9 Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 Wow that is insensitive. Find a new GF. 1
Author rcrljmg07 Posted September 14, 2018 Author Posted September 14, 2018 I know I had brought up that she could talk about drinking because it’s part of her day But drinking out of a wine bottle and going out of her way to show me like that was a lousy thing to do
preraph Posted September 14, 2018 Posted September 14, 2018 It was a crappy insensitive thing to do. And it also tells me she doesn't care if you stop drinking or not, but this is why I pee will tell you that you very often have to leave old friends behind to get sober. Be sure you got a support group like AA and you can actually go in there and tell them this story and have 30 people feeling really bad for you.
amaysngrace Posted September 14, 2018 Posted September 14, 2018 I bet she’ll feel bad about it once she sobers up. If she doesn’t you probably need to break up with her. People do dumb things all the time when they’ve been drinking. Your best response is no response and see if she has any remorse. Great job on getting and staying sober! Does she try to break you often or was this the first time she’s acted horribly?
BaileyB Posted September 14, 2018 Posted September 14, 2018 I know I had brought up that she could talk about drinking because it’s part of her day But drinking out of a wine bottle and going out of her way to show me like that was a lousy thing to do It was a lousy thing to do... you should break up with her!
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