Riot21 Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 He didn’t go out with my friends and I this weekend when I invited him (he was busy with friends though). Then we made plans to meet later in the week and he said great! Ttyl and I’ll see you Friday on a Sunday. I refuse to double text him because what the heck? We have fun when hanging out and he has long texts but he will randomly just stop a convo and then we won’t talk for a few days. We have a fun time together but I’m afraid that as usual, he is in it for sex. We’ve been on like three to four dates and have another planned. What is the deal? Is he even interested? And should I even respond to him saying ttyl see ya later? (The first link is our messages) https://imgur.com/a/Jmz0TfR https://imgur.com/a/Ob72xzw https://imgur.com/a/RmVWksG
Author Riot21 Posted September 12, 2018 Author Posted September 12, 2018 Did you have sex with him? TFY I have before
BaileyB Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 Please tell us that this isn't your former boyfriend...
Author Riot21 Posted September 12, 2018 Author Posted September 12, 2018 Please tell us that this isn't your former boyfriend... Surprisingly I am just attracted to people who don’t like me and treat me poorly.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 There's not much context to your messages, so it's hard to determine interest on his end. When was your last date?
stillafool Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 Surprisingly I am just attracted to people who don’t like me and treat me poorly. Well if this is your pattern expect to be treated this way and not question it. You have your answer. 1
preraph Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 This is when it's a good thing to have made rules and boundaries up before you get emotional on someone that you use for guidance when you can't think for the emotions. And always ask yourself if you have or ever would treat someone how whoever it is just treated you. If not, they aren't on the same page as you ethically at a bare minimum. 2
smackie9 Posted September 12, 2018 Posted September 12, 2018 Ya he's not that into you...you will just do when it's convenient for him. 1
Author Riot21 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Posted September 13, 2018 Ya he's not that into you...you will just do when it's convenient for him. Why do you say that?
Author Riot21 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Posted September 13, 2018 Ya he's not that into you...you will just do when it's convenient for him. He visited me at work before he went on vacation at like one in the mornin.
Author Riot21 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Posted September 13, 2018 You work at a bar? No. I’m a nurse who works night shift.
smackie9 Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 If you feel confidence in him because he did that, then let things play out.
Author Riot21 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Posted September 13, 2018 If you feel confidence in him because he did that, then let things play out. I mean that’s kind of sweet right? Yeah I cancelled our date and then he asked to hangout the next night if I was free.
smackie9 Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 I mean that’s kind of sweet right? Yeah I cancelled our date and then he asked to hangout the next night if I was free. Sounds like he's giving you a shot.
stillafool Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 Why do you say that? She said that because you said this: Surprisingly I am just attracted to people who don’t like me and treat me poorly. Why did you say the above if you think he's sweet to you?
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