Linda_411 Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Why doesn't my boyfriend like to look directly into eyes? He said that it's weird to just stare at someone for a long period of time. But I just see it as a way to show affection that you really care about someone. Any Opinions?
elijahBailey Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 The reasons are different from people to people.... I find eye-contact easier with some people than with others. Can't explain it. Some people have gazes that could 'burn' you if you hold the gaze too long. I wonder if it's got anything to do with an old proverb.... that the eyes are the gateway to the soul (or something like that) ? Also, it might be.... 1. he lacks confidence 2. he's hiding something 3. he doesn't want to intrude on your 'personal space' 4. just his habit For me, I wouldn't be bothered too much by this.
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 My BF looks into my eyes all the time. It shows that their looking deep into you and not just at your physical features. You can actually feel the love when they look deep into your soul, your heart. Its a wonderful feeling knowing that someone loves you as much as they do. You can feel it by a long deep stare into someones eyes. Are you sure he loves you?
Author Linda_411 Posted September 7, 2005 Author Posted September 7, 2005 Well he says to me that he knows how he feels about me, but I never has saud that he loves me. Like he always talks about having a house with me and marrying me, so I dunno?
Author Linda_411 Posted September 7, 2005 Author Posted September 7, 2005 Sorry that didn't make sense. He said that I know how he feels about me, but it takes time. And yeah about the whole marriage thing...
Merin Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Why doesn't my boyfriend like to look directly into eyes? He said that it's weird to just stare at someone for a long period of time. But I just see it as a way to show affection that you really care about someone. Any Opinions? Maybe he's afraid he will be turned into a pillar of salt:confused: JK JK JK Keep in mind that what is showing affection in your mind may not be the same way your BF shows his affection for you....
elijahBailey Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Keep in mind that what is showing affection in your mind may not be the same way your BF shows his affection for you.... EXACTLY! Most men just aren't as vocal as women when it comes to expressing ourselves.
fudge_cake_89 Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 i know what u mean, cos when i was on my hols there was a guy who i just automatically connected with and spent my whole holiday staring into his eyes, but i never spoke to him and now im regreting it! but with my ex, i wouldnt be able to stare into his eyes comfortably, so yeah, its different with different people. i think it is a confidence issue cos i wasnt very confident b4 i actually went out with my ex, at the end of the relationship i was loads more confident and it shows cos i could stare into holiday guy's eyes and feel completely comfortable. give it time and you might be able to just gaze into each others eyes forever!
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