I really need my ex back its been a week in a half :(

[flaqkoooo]

hello , so ive been dating this girl for five years and im really hooked to her shes been everything i wanted i wouldn't trade her for nothing in this world so lets begin with were both Leos both of our birthday is august 19 and we fight sometimes but in between our relationship she had lied about her age and i was too far in love with her that i couldn't leave her so i stayed with her now so this where it gets kinda crazy i met her when i was 18 and she was 14 years of age again she lied to me about her age so i had no clue but we went on many dates like we were very happy like she was everything i wanted in a girl she cried because when i met her she told me she was 17 and that she was gonna be 18 in august so you know i was okay with that

 

 

so then later on she tells me ' oh theirs something i need to tell you '. i said what shes says im 15 so now im like im in love with this girl i couldn't let go every time i tried i just couldn't so we kept the relationship going so meanwhile while we were dating of course not every relationship is perfect she had snuck around talking to this other guy then when i found out i made her block him on everything she had him on and she did and oh did i mention me and her relationship was long distance but i drove to see her every weekend and i did it because i was attracted to her so after the situation of course we loved each other so endlessly i just never wanted someone so much in may i took her virginity she became attached so did she said it was good and like she became to wanted to know where i was at times to what i was doing etc.. so did i but i think i was more crazier and obsessed but this year she turned 17 and i turned 23 and i wasn't ashamed because once your in loved it almost impossible too

 

 

so at the beginning of the month of august this year i had a couple days off and decided to go and see her since the fourth of July i was suppose to see her and couldn't do to work so i drove down there and surprised her i also showed have mention earlier her mom knew my real age and told her you have to watch out for older guys cause most just want sex but all i wanted was her heart but anyways so i got a hotel to stay there a couple of days well the first night was the last night for me to ever see her me and her had been arguing the whole day and i knew it was because she was kinda still upset from the whole not seeing her most of the month of July but i ended up taking her back home cause i didn't wanna fight i only came down to see her and take her out because i missed her so freaking much so basically i called her around like 9:05pm at night saying get dressed lets go see a movie and by the time i got there she was ready and before she walked out the door her mom told her to turn her location on her phone but her mom never told her to do that before so she still did it so then we drove to the movies and we got there and she told me she wanted to go to my hotel and have sex and that she didn't wanna watch a movie.

 

so then im like okay but your mom is going to know so then afterwards she put her phone on airplane mode because i guess it was gonna keep that last location of the movies so we went and she said we need to be quick so then it ended up being an hour and i was mad about something afterwards and she tried hugging me and kissing me but i pushed her and she was like we just had sex you seemed okay whats wrong and i said lets go before your mom catch us and we came down the elevator and her mom was outside i was in a total SHOCK.

 

i was shaking and her mom asked how was the movie and i didnt say anything and her mom yells at her and says ' get in the ****ing car ' and her stepped dad kept looking at me up and down then her mom said to me 'if you ****ing call her or text her again ill call the ****ing police '. that night i went back in the hotel i cried i wanted to contact her but i knew her mom took her phone which she did i hadn't spoken to her a week but school was starting back and i knew she needed her phone back which she did before school started and she ended up telling me that her mom had said me and here couldn't see each other no more but we can still text each other so then i was crying about it because her mom even said we couldn't date.

 

so i started crying because i was hurt so weeks later me and her began fighting oer little things and i knew it was because me and her hadn't seen each other and i wanted to see her so bad she would even tell me too it hurt more because i was so use to her calling me her 'babe or baby' and i didn't get that from her she would only approach me by my first name not to mention i wrote this to her mom.

 

''Dear , Mrs . Amanda I know it’s a bit late but I just been thinking about your daughter nonstop I’m so sorry that we lied about going to the movies it was very disrespectful and we didn’t mean to do that I’m really deeply In loved with your daughter I’ll never let anything bad happen to her nor will I ever do anything to hurt her she’s always safe with me it’s understandable that she’s all that you have and your just protecting her so that nothing happens to her but she came into my life and she changed a lot of things and she has helped me through a lot .. there isn’t a dull moment that passes by and I don’t think about your daughter .. she will always know what she deserves as long as she is with me .. me and your daughter have been dating a couple of years now and till this day anything I have going on in my life she’s always the first one I tell because she never tells me anything wrong when I need her opinion .. honestly I wanna marry your daughter someday she’s everything I have dreamed of she’s beautiful from head to toe I spoil her because she deserves it she’s a really great girl I don’t know where I would be if she hadn’t stepped into my life she has been nothing but an amazing girlfriend and i wouldn’t trade her for no one else in the world I know that your very disappointed and I promise you it wasn’t to disrespect you in any types of way but I would honestly like to sit down and have a talk with you about this because I love your daughter so much and I don’t wanna be on bad terms with you for this situation so if you could please text me a good day to actually sit down and talk about this that would be great and again I’m so sorry about what happened ".

 

her mom never responded so another week passed by and the guy i told her to block on all social media she unblocked him on Instagram and she followed him so i called her around 7 in the morning and asked her for her password to her Instagram to block him back and she told me no and that she was done with me she said i was controlling and that she always did what i asked her to do so i kept asking her for the password and she kept saying no so i was thinking the worse of course so when she broke up with me i began crying and told her i'll never contact her ever again

 

and she began crying and said why i told her because im deeply in love with you and then afterwards she was saying dont leave me and i said im not you left me i said i dont want you too and then she said she needs space and your manipulating me your older she said that she wants to be able to go to homecoming and do other things without having to ask my permission and i knew she wanted to go to homecoming i cant stop her from going because i did all that in high school and i felt like maybe she wanted to go with another guy to homecoming but i would understand because i went with another girl to homecoming so it would have been okay if she just asked and yes i did get upset sometimes when she went out with friends because i couldn't see her often like her friends could so then the other day she called i tried and tried getting back with her and she was like shes tired shes hurting she said she still wants to be with me but were in a unhealthy and toxic relationship.

 

but i know when you really love someone you dont give up you fight and im still here with open arms for her ready for her to come back its only been six days but i want her i miss her a lot the last time we had spoke she told me to get better heal and that i should consider dating other people and also go out more but the only person i wanna date is her i dont wanna talk to anyone else she got me hooked and i love that because i love her so much dont wanna be friends with her i want her to be my GIRLFRIEND.

 

yesterday she called me twice and i ignored the calls but it was very tempting to answer but my best friend had told me you were down and very sad and she knew that she was just feeding off that and knew that if she came back you'd take her back so she said when she comes back and try calling you ignore her calls and make her chase you so today my ex ended up calling two times again then left a voice mail this time saying ''hey i tried to call you last night just hoping you're okay but just call me back when you get the chance i just wanna make sure yore good.'' should i call her back ?? can someone give me some good ADVICE i cant let this girl go i want her so bad im really in love with her please give me some thoughts on this . please and thank you and i love honesty even if it hurts .:(:(

[Cupid's Puppet]

I think this was a very unhealthy relationship. I'm not sure what country you are from, but I am pretty sure in the US what you did would be considered statutory rape in many states. I think you need to distance yourself from this situation ASAP before the parents bring any charges against you.

 

I know you are probably thinking that you would always regret not answering her. I felt this way the last time an ex called me. 4 years later and I do not regret ignoring the last call.

 

You were being controlling. You just were. And you all are in different life stages. Let her have these teenage experiences. Don't strip that from her. Take the time apart and grieve the loss. Start dating women around your age range or who are at least in a similar life stage. I think you will enjoy it more.

[preraph]

Right now she's underaged and you've been warned by her parents, so you better leave her alone. I don't know where you two live, but maybe when she's 18, she will be legal and you can risk trying to see if she's interested in dating again. Meanwhile, don't try to see her and get yourself charged. Let her enjoy her prom and all and sounds she'll turn 18 next July or so. Stop being dramatic, and stop playing games with her. Don't you think the situation is bad enough and complicated enough without you trying to play hard to get after you've already been crying on the phone to her. Who do you think you're kidding?