iash101 Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 Hi all ! My partner broke it off with me 2 weeks ago , iv accepted its over although I do still think about her every day . As it turns out she’s been checking out one of my instagram followers profile and liking her pics . The girl in question has messaged me to tell me this and we’ve got chatting , we seem to have a lot in common and I find her attractive . My question is do I go on a date with her or is it too early?
d0nnivain Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 It's too early for you to be dating. I thought you were concentrating on healing yourself & managing your stress. See other thread: https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/663855-struggling-break-up-updated-2.html Now after finding out that your EX is trying to dating your IG follower, you want to date that same IG follower? Drama much? You are going to get in a tug of war with your very recent EX over both of you trying to date the same new person. Oh that sounds like a recipe for disaster.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 Considering you wrote this, "I don’t know what to do with myself , I’m really struggling to cope and function" about your break-up three days ago, no, you are most definitely not ready to go on a date. Don't date as a coping mechanism to heal your pain. It won't work, and it's not fair to this other girl. 1
smackie9 Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 You are not dead, you can still go out and date...at least have some fun, just don't do it for the sake of developing a relationship. If you do decide to ask this girl out, you must let her know where you are at emotionally, and now is not the time to try and connect. Just make some new friends, get out and find things to do, hang out, be all casual.
Author iash101 Posted September 7, 2018 Author Posted September 7, 2018 It's too early for you to be dating. I thought you were concentrating on healing yourself & managing your stress. See other thread: https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/663855-struggling-break-up-updated-2.html Now after finding out that your EX is trying to dating your IG follower, you want to date that same IG follower? Drama much? You are going to get in a tug of war with your very recent EX over both of you trying to date the same new person. Oh that sounds like a recipe for disaster. No the ex dosnt want to date my instagram follower , the ex had been checking her profile out after she commented on a couple of my posts , she reckons she liked them by accident
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