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I was seeing a girl for 6 months in her country before I had to return home , at that point she did'nt want to break up and we done the ldr thing for 1 year with her flying to me twice and I once.

 

3 months ago she phones and said she could'nt wait another year but it was impossible for me to return at that point . I was very commited to her and she said she was likewise . After lots of fighting with me trying to get her to come to my country and making desperate suggestions we broke up . I was very emotional and handled it very badly but I was never in the least nasty.

 

After that she agreed to see if its possible for a second chance and we spoke for about a month untill she said it was not working , in all honestly I was still very raw and suffocated the poor girl , clingy pushing to hard ect. Most importantly there was still no way of me returning as I could not work legally.

 

I said I'd give her space but in a 5 week period texted her 3 times emailed her 4 times and wrote her a letter , admittely she never once replied. Finally about 5 weeks back I sent her flowers as I could return with a note saying I would like to try again as she ment the world to me . On the same day she sent an extremely nasty email saying if I returned and contacted her she would take legal action.

 

Its been 5 weeks now without any attempt at contact and I hear she has a new boyfreind . Logically its completely over but I am still in love with her and against all odds hopefull , i intend on sending an apoligy in 3 weeks time which would be two months of NC.

 

Any advice ?

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Disapear from her life. You have no choice. If she ever wants you again she will come and find you but we are talking months and possibly years. In reality I doubt she will ever return.

 

You must now focus on you and recover from this experience. In time you will begin to see that lovely women are all around you.

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On the same day she sent an extremely nasty email saying if I returned and contacted her she would take legal action.

 

The woman has threatened you with legal action, that's all the advice you need. Never contact, txt, phone, send flowers, email, AIM, again. Never ever.

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Well I have just been informed by my employer that I have no option but to return , I did after all push for it when things where still going well . Guess I'll just have to make the most of it.

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