ExtraSpice Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 I met this girl during a competition our company took part in. We clicked and I thought to myself I should pursue the interest. Went on a first impromptu date after the awards ceremony for the competition. I believe it went good. The next day we were texting a little bit, the last text was mine which included a question. Question was not important by any means but I never got a text response to it. I didn't get a response the day after or the day after that. Granted that day was Friday so maybe she got busy in weekend activities. Moving on from that, I asked her out for another date during the week. She said yes, went on the date. Again I believe everything went good. Kissed her at the end of that date. The next day the exact same thing happened, texted for a bit and then no reply at all for my last text which did include a question. Now the questions themselves are not important and I don't mind if someone takes their time in replying even if they reply the day after but no reply at all just seems odd to me. I chalked the second instance of no reply to the weekend also and said lets ask her out again and see if there is still interest. Well I did ask her out again and there has been no reply to that at all. No way for me to really know why there has been no response. Maybe she lost interest all of a sudden, which can happen but strikes me as strange. Maybe something happened during the second date that just completely turned her off. I honestly can't recall anything like that. I may see here once more for a followup for the competition but now I am wondering if there is any point to me going to and maybe I should just avoid it and have another teammember attend. I am assuming at this point there is nothing I can or should do and just leave it be? It just keeps bugging me to no end because her interest level in person seems high and when there is texting it is engaging and not one sided but then communication just falls off completely.
Shanex Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 She stopped communication for a reason and you might never know why. Let her go. Unless she was hit by a bus I’m afraid she just wasn’t interested romantically. 2
smackie9 Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 She gave you a shot, tried to get comfortable with you...no chemistry, even tho you look good on paper....sorry but you can't win them all. It's also possible she's got someone else on the hook. These things happen. You really can't gauge someone's interest on two dates. She still can have a good time without the interest for a relationship. 1
alphamale Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 if a girl is genuinely interested in you she won't stop communicating 3
Author ExtraSpice Posted September 4, 2018 Author Posted September 4, 2018 That's fair enough. Though a reply indicating a lack of interest would have been good but I guess a no replay says the same thing. Nothing for me to do but move on at this point.
Dis Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 That's fair enough. Though a reply indicating a lack of interest would have been good but I guess a no replay says the same thing. Nothing for me to do but move on at this point. I hear you but most people (although it's not at all fair to do) prefer to ghost instead of sending a rejection text I know it's disappointing but dating is not for the faint of heart. You have to roll with the punches Keep your chin up and move on to bigger and better things 1
SevenCity Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 I would forget her and still go to the competition. Her lack of interest should have no bearing on your choice to attend. If you see her, say hi and go about your business and act like you never took her out. 1
Gretchen12 Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 You don't get your answer from text messages. The truth is in that kiss. How did that go? There are only two types of kisses: passionate, or not. If not, no chemistry.
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