Drama over not eating off her plate

[smackie9]

Still haven't meet up but still texting at a minimum. My inclination is to overlook the situation and give it another chance.

Spoken like a true man....just sweep it under the rug. Out of sight out of mind.

[preraph]

Just as a forewarning: She'll want to get engaged at Disneyland.

 

And married at Disneyland.

 

Soon.

[Orokotikki]

I suggest you ask yourself OP, do you think you will be able to handle a more serious issue/argument with her in a productive way when it arises?

 

P.S. Also bear in mind you probably should get on a waiting list now for the Disneyland wedding. I am betting it is a long list.

[littleblackheart]

Probably the strangest reason I've seen for breaking things off.

 

OP, if you consider carrying on with this, it says one of 2 things:

 

Either you have majorly downplayed your own role in the situation while over-exaggerating the angry look, and you have now accepting that maybe there is more to this than meets the eye yet are unwilling to sort it out like a grown man, or you are a sucker for punishment.

 

If this seemingly fairly low key misunderstanding can bring about so much drama early on in the relationship, this doesn't really bode well for the future and how the tone is set with how you deal with arguments (her in a passive aggressive way, you in a dismissive/avoidant way).

[preraph]

You do realize she's going to want to get married in a blue princess dress, right? That will make your mother ecstatic.

 

Ask her if she has a Disney collection. Ask her what all she has. Find out if she's really off the deep end or just has a thing or two.

[MaleIntuition]

You do realize she's going to want to get married in a blue princess dress, right? That will make your mother ecstatic.

 

Ask her if she has a Disney collection. Ask her what all she has. Find out if she's really off the deep end or just has a thing or two.

 

Seriously, what’s your problem here? Projecting something?

[Lotsgoingon]

OP, do us a favor.

 

If you decide to sweep things under the rug, then yes send her some flowers ... followed by some really nice chocolate ... and send her a favorite link (I'm not going to tell you which one!!!!!) ....

 

If she responds, you should sit down at the next meal and order your own separate meals but insist on one plate for the whole thing. I'm kidding.

 

Seriously, you must like adventure and I have a feeling that if she's open to going out again with you, then you're gonna get a story just about as good as this one ...

 

Please. Please! ... If you go out again, do come here and share.

 

You seem to take the feedback and humor here really well.

[amaysngrace]

Next tine just hold both her hands in one of yours when food comes so people know you’re a couple.

[cre8r]

Well for all you curious minds, it's over. I wanted to give this a chance, other than the plate incident, I thought the chemistry was pretty good. It was an ldr, as I was getting the slow fade, I called (instead of texting) to find out what was going on. I got the "I don't know, I'm confused" excuse along with me not being the marrying type (that came out of nowhere, but I guess that's something she's looking for), also, we never talk on the phone which is a valid reason, again, if that's what she's looking for. However it's entirely possible the fade could be for other reasons. She's a sweet woman nevertheless. Unless you eat off a separate plate.

[bathtub-row]

Well, sorry it didn’t work out if you wanted it to. Sounds like you might not have been that invested if you guys never talked on the phone. LDRs are fairly hard to maintain anyway. Not sure if that helps or not.