Zev29 Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Hey so I made an account to write what I'm about to write because I want different opinions! Back in 2009 I met a girl in my high school who we will call Sirena I was her friend for awhile before we started dating and we dated for 4 years up until the first month of 2013. The main reason was we were getting distant in our relationship since she lived far from where I lived and she transferred schools after I had graduatted from HS. She was a 11 the garder when I graduated in 2012. The last year that Sirena was in was when it all went down hill since she met this guy at school who we will call Ed! She would always go to Ed for comfort when me and Sirena would argue or whatever it was. I was only seeing Sirena on the weekend where Ed everyday at school. We ended breaking up because she cheated on me. This was my first relationship with Sirena as was hers. I made alot of mistakes in our relationship then which made me feel is what lead her to cheating on me. Anyway after we broke up Sirena started dating Ed a monther after. Then Sirena one day texted me saying she no longer wanted to be friends and that this was pretty much goodbye so I said okay and we never spoke again up until NOW 5 years later 2018. She messaged me on Facebook messenger and all she said was "hey" and waved at me through Facebook! I responded back and we just talked but not so much it was a pretty dull conversation with just simple " I've been good how about you" kind of dull. We essentially chalked 5 years to " yeah I been good" after ahile of akward conversation I guess I just asked if I could see her in person to catch up! She said "we'll see" literally that same day I saw her because she was at a bar neary house! She didn't invite me but she told me she was there and I said I'd stop by after work. Once I got to the bar she said she was in, she was with 4 of her friends and I approched them and said Hi! She seemed really shock to see how I've changed in looks in her words she said I looked "old" which I didn't know what to think of that but whatever. I look like a baby still but definitely different from when I last saw her! We talked for awhile she already had alot to drink since she's been there who knows how long! We just talked and she brought up Ed and mentioned that they live together now, heading for 6 years in the realtionship. I sat there akwardly because this is the guy she cheated on me with and said good for you (to be polite idk). She said that it was wierd living with him and that was all before her friends interrupted her telling her they were going out for a smoke! Leaving me and Sirena alone. Then Sirena and I kept talking and she got really close to my face we could practically kiss but I just sat there calm and acted like she wasn't that close, knowing her she probably was just teasing me. Nothing much happened after that we just talked more and hugged each other goodbye and we messaged each other on Facebook for awhile after she left the bar. Something to keep in mind Sirena isn't this girl who likes to show her feelings and hides them. She would ignore you or just literally come off as not caring at all. She's really good at it making it hard for me to read her to even wondering why she even contacted me after 5 years . Don't get me wrong despite what she did I'd love to had something with her someday as for I was an idiot then and wouldn't make those mistakes. I was overall happy to see her but again my biggest question is why did she contact me if she is living and still with Ed ? What did she want? Not implying that she can't contact me at all but i want to know why? She said she would message me if she was in the area again to hang out.. I just want to know what you guys think. Thank you for reading if you made it this far I appreciate it!
FMW Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 She probably contacted you out of curiosity and because she's feeling bored with Ed. My guess is she's not that committed to their relationship. I would be careful about getting too interested in her again, I'm not sure I would trust her as more than someone to hang out with casually.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 I wouldn't get too excited, OP. She cheated on you with Ed. Now she's seemingly trying to reestablish a friendship with you, while she's still with Ed. Kind of like what she did to you all those years ago. My guess? She hasn't changed much in the last 5 years.
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