bellaD Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Me and my bf got into an argument in the begining of last week. It was stupid, really. But hes really upset with me b/c i "broke up" with him and said some stupid and hurtful things that i DID NOT mean at all. I used the break up thing as a threat. I love him to death i would never really go through with it. I just have that italian temper and need to learn to think before i speak and control my anger. Anyways, i apologized a milion times.... but hes saying what i did was really hurtful. He afraid that if we get into another argument that i will "break up" with him again. So hes kinda just taking his space right now? SHould i be getting mad that hes been draggin this on for a week almost 2?? When do i stop apologizing? Is what i did really that bad where he needs time to think???
JS17 Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 I hate to say this but, yeah, what you did was that bad. I'm sorry Think about it this way, if he got mad and said all sorts of mean things to you and then broke up with you, how would you feel? You would be hurt, you would be afraid that it would happen again, you'd be wary of putting yourself out there with your bf again, it would be stressful and dramatic. BUT, you can only apologize so much. If you have made it clear that you're sorry and you're willing to do whatever it will take to get him back then give him his space. I'm sorry that my answer isn't what you wanted to hear but I'm just trying to help you to understand. Good luck, hope it works out for you
Merin Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 I hate to say this but, yeah, what you did was that bad. I'm sorry Think about it this way, if he got mad and said all sorts of mean things to you and then broke up with you, how would you feel? You would be hurt, you would be afraid that it would happen again, you'd be wary of putting yourself out there with your bf again, it would be stressful and dramatic. BUT, you can only apologize so much. If you have made it clear that you're sorry and you're willing to do whatever it will take to get him back then give him his space. I'm sorry that my answer isn't what you wanted to hear but I'm just trying to help you to understand. Good luck, hope it works out for you Exactly. Sorry to say, but yeah be careful what you ask for because you just might get it... Using the threat of leaving someone as a means to get control or sway someone is NEVER a good idea... Hope it works out for you as well... at this point my advice would be in SHOWING your BF you're sincere... Good Luck
Author bellaD Posted September 7, 2005 Author Posted September 7, 2005 yea but what up with not being able to get what i did outta his head??
Rocko Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 You know how people never forget love? They never forget hurt either.
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