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Just over a year ago I asked out this girl who was showing quite a lot of interest in me. Although I barely knew her she gave me her number and agreed to go on date. The next few days we were texting each other and it seemed to be going great. However, after a few text exchanges I found out she was only 16, and me being 20 at the time I didn’t feel comfortable pursuing anything with her. She understood, and we ended up agreeing to stay as friends, but ultimately move on from each other…. After this we ended up losing contact and I didn’t see her for the remainder of the year.

 

However, just a couple of weeks ago I saw her again on a night out. Even though I didn’t talk to her I noticed she would often glance over and smile at me. Anyway, the next day I didn’t really think much of it, but a few days later she started following me on social media. Then, about a day after she followed me on Instagram she posted a pic saying she was 18. Now, as I’m still interested in her and her recently turning 18 I was wondering whether to ask her out again. But the only problem is, as its been so long and what happened before I don’t know what to say to her.

So, is it worth asking her again and If so what should I say to her.

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Just over a year ago I asked out this girl who was showing quite a lot of interest in me. Although I barely knew her she gave me her number and agreed to go on date. The next few days we were texting each other and it seemed to be going great. However, after a few text exchanges I found out she was only 16, and me being 20 at the time I didn’t feel comfortable pursuing anything with her. She understood, and we ended up agreeing to stay as friends, but ultimately move on from each other…. After this we ended up losing contact and I didn’t see her for the remainder of the year.

 

However, just a couple of weeks ago I saw her again on a night out. Even though I didn’t talk to her I noticed she would often glance over and smile at me. Anyway, the next day I didn’t really think much of it, but a few days later she started following me on social media. Then, about a day after she followed me on Instagram she posted a pic saying she was 18. Now, as I’m still interested in her and her recently turning 18 I was wondering whether to ask her out again. But the only problem is, as its been so long and what happened before I don’t know what to say to her.

So, is it worth asking her again and If so what should I say to her.

 

Just message her on Instagram & say "Hey so & so, long time no see. I noticed you have turned 18 and while the timing wasn't right a couple years ago, I still find you quite attractive and was wondering if you would like to grab a bite to eat with me."

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How about saying:

 

Remember me? Happy belated birthday! Can I take you out to celebrate?

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