jono1132 Posted September 2, 2018 Posted September 2, 2018 (edited) So I met that girl the other day, she was very interested. I was able to see how much she was attracted to me in the way she look at me and the way she talk to me. Our first date was great. She suggested to setup the meetings going forward. She did schedule four meetings. Before three hours of the first date that she scheduled... she cancelled it for an emergent *BS* issue that came up!!. She greatly apologized. She, literally , said that she is genuinely looking forward to our next meeting. Unfortunately, and in the same way. She contacted me before three hours and canceled the second date, that she scheduled, because she was busy! What type of girls is this one. I can't understand girls, she drove me nuts!! Please advice based on your experience. What I should do? Edited September 2, 2018 by jono1132
ExpatInItaly Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Two types of girls do this: 1) Girls who are genuinely busy and need to attend to something else 2) Girls who aren't interested anymore but don't have the stones to be honest. Did she offer to reschedule?
pandagirl2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 So I met that girl the other day, she was very interested. I was able to see how much she was attracted to me in the way she look at me and the way she talk to me. Our first date was great. She suggested to setup the meetings going forward. She did schedule four meetings. Before three hours of the first date that she scheduled... she cancelled it for an emergent *BS* issue that came up!!. She greatly apologized. She, literally , said that she is genuinely looking forward to our next meeting. Unfortunately, and in the same way. She contacted me before three hours and canceled the second date, that she scheduled, because she was busy! What type of girls is this one. I can't understand girls, she drove me nuts!! Please advice based on your experience. What I should do? If it doesn't feel good and it feels off, move on. You don't have to understand it, just listen to your intuition. 1
Andy_K Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 You can apply a simple rule here... If she apologises and offers another date, you give the benefit of the doubt and accept the offer If she doesn't offer another date, or makes only vague suggestions about one, put the ball in her court by asking her to let you know when she's free to meet up again. She'll either do that or not, and either way you know where you stand 1
FMW Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 If you want, give her one more chance (no reason you should if you don't want to), if SHE arranges another meeting. But if she cancels that one, then three strikes, she's out.
PegNosePete Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 You set up dates #2, #3 and #4 all after the first one? And the 2nd, she cancels a few hours before because she's "busy", and same the 3rd. I would just move on. If she wants to meet you then she would not be "busy" for a pre-arranged date! Emergencies happen, but she should already be busy dating you!!
Author jono1132 Posted September 3, 2018 Author Posted September 3, 2018 You set up dates #2, #3 and #4 all after the first one? And the 2nd, she cancels a few hours before because she's "busy", and same the 3rd. I would just move on. If she wants to meet you then she would not be "busy" for a pre-arranged date! Emergencies happen, but she should already be busy dating you!! She set up dates #2, #3, #4 after the first one. Not me! She was playing games. That's it. There is no honesty anymore !
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