buzzie2 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I recently helped throw a suprise birthday party for a guy firned that I have strong feelings for. We met at a restaurant and mostly invited his guy friends. When he got to the restaurant he completely ignored me. He even told me to sit a couple tables away from his friends. After he opened his gifts his friends started telling dirty jokes. When ever I tried joining in the conversation he and his best friend would give me strange looks, and my crush wouldnt even look me in the eye. What does his behavior mean?
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 It means you should rethink your crush on him.
bluechocolate Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 When he got to the restaurant he completely ignored me. He even told me to sit a couple tables away from his friends. He didn't completely ignore you then, just paid enough attention to tell you to sit away from his friends. He ignored you, didn't want you to sit with his friends, gave you strange looks when you tried to join in on conversations..... What does his behavior mean? Unless he's 8 years old I'd say it means he doesn't think very highly of you. Sorry.
crazy_grl Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 What does his behavior mean? Unless he's 8 years old I'd say it means he doesn't think very highly of you. Sorry. And that he's an inconsiderate jerk and not even a very good friend. He'd probably make just as bad of a bf. Move on and forget him.
Link-80 Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 And that he's an inconsiderate jerk and not even a very good friend. He'd probably make just as bad of a bf. Move on and forget him. And that you have no diea how to psychologically analyze anything. You're a real winner. Anyway, I think you're thinking too far into it. A lot of guys can't handle a woman being like one of the guys (i.e. - dirty jokes). He may have also been embarassed of his friends. I know I've had friends who I've wanted a girl to stay awayfrom because they'd say things around her I wouldn't appreciate. Not things about me, but saying stuff about her to her. Basically being pigs. Maybe he does like you and he's just concerned that they'd hurt you or he'd having trouble accepting that not all girls are "proper women". When I met my girlfriend, she belched and farted more than I ever have. It shocked me, and made me feel like she was too powerful for me to handle, becuase she's damn confident to be doing that. But now I'm the happiest I've ever been with anyone. Your best bet is to talk to the guy about it.
crazy_grl Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 And that you have no diea how to psychologically analyze anything. You're a real winner. Thanks, I can't imagine why you wouldn't see the guy as a jerk. You don't send someone you like (as a friend or otherwise) to sit by themselves across the room while you have a party. And if that's the way he treats his friends, he probably doesnt have the social abilities to treat a gf right either. Maybe he does like you and he's just concerned that they'd hurt you or he'd having trouble accepting that not all girls are "proper women". If that's the case, asking her to go sit by herself was a great way to spare her from having to deal with the guys. Why bother explaining to her that he's embarrassed of his friends when he can make her feel like dirt by telling her to just go away and not talk to them?? That's a perfect way to handle that situation. I can only imagine what he'd do when they were on a date and one of his buddies showed up... So your assessment is that he likes her but is socially stunted and inconsiderate? Perfect boyfriend material.
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