kscholze Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 after a month of NC my ex called to wish me Happy birthday. Then I saw her out and she had to leave saying she loved me and missed me more than I could ever imagine. The next week I called her, told her I still loved her and found out she was back with her ex. I was hurt. I asked her why she was with him if she loved me and she said she wasn't sure what she wanted (thats why shes with him , Right). So I said I didn't want to be plan B. She got pissed and said to leave her alone for the time being. Yesterday I texted her to see if she was still pissed. She said no, but things will never work between us. She said she is happy with who she is with because he would never pressure her like I did. I asked if we could talk and she said no she has made up her mind What does she want?
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 She wants things to work 100% in her favor - and since you did not agree to be the backup plan doormat, things stopped working 100% in her favor, and she cut you loose. I feel sorry for you and her boyfriend, to be honest.
Author kscholze Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 she told me there was no plan a or plan b. I said "why are you with him then if you don't know what you want?" am I right?
Author kscholze Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 I can let her go, but she keeps sticking around. I know I will here from her in 2 months when things dont work for her or she realizes that she truely loves me.
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