brigit87 Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 After a week of break off it all came to a head last night she called it off good we’ve severed all communication, she said she loves me and would have liked it to work but can’t take the risk of me not getting back to my old self ..iv deleted her number etc so I can’t contact as I feel the urge to plead with her. I don’t know what to do with myself , I’m really struggling to cope and function . You need to let yourself be sad. Right now you have something to be sad about and you can embrace that emotion. What you're going thru is normal. One day you won't feel the pain but today you do. Just feel sad.
Author iash101 Posted September 4, 2018 Author Posted September 4, 2018 It’s the one day bit , i don’t know how long I can cope with this
CantTakeMySmile Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 It’s the one day bit , i don’t know how long I can cope with this Unfortunately, you HAVE to cope with it. For people that have been left, there is not other choice out there. There is no "I don't want to feel this anymore" option. You will feel it until you don't. OF course there are ways to hinder your healing and ways to improve it. But, you WILL cope. You have no other viable option.
Author iash101 Posted September 4, 2018 Author Posted September 4, 2018 Thank you for the advice much appreciated
Author iash101 Posted September 10, 2018 Author Posted September 10, 2018 Hi everyone ! I split from my partner 2 weeks ago , after trying the no contact thing but failed she went from admitting she loved me still fancied me and misses me and if she could guarantee we’d be happy she’d give it a go..to unsure if she loved me the following day . Is this possible ? The only chance I have now is leaving her alone and hoping she has second thoughts . Regards ian
preraph Posted September 10, 2018 Posted September 10, 2018 Well, there's no guarantees, and she knows that. So just remind her it takes two to tango.
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