james0711 Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 Over the past month or so I’ve been talking to this girl who I have liked for quite some time and I really want to ask her out. She seems to be interested, but the only problem I got is both of us will be going away to Uni soon. Although our Uni’s are not too far from each other (45 minutes by car) I’m still hesitant on whether to ask her. So, should I give it a try or just forget it and move on.
Happy Lemming Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 I think I might pass on this one... There are going to be plenty of women at University for you date!! Its going to be a great time in your life, go have fun (unencumbered / unattached)!! As for her, there are going to be plenty of guys asking her out at University.
alphamale Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 concentrate on your studies for now, there will be plenty of time for chicks later on...
d0nnivain Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 You can go on A date with her if you like but don't start a new exclusive relationship with her at this point. Go off to uni. Meet new people. Next time you are both home, if you are both single, have another date or two when you are back together for the holidays but do not attempt anything serious until you have a better handle on what changes uni will bring to you as a person & the whole new wonderful expanded world that awaits you.
Author james0711 Posted August 30, 2018 Author Posted August 30, 2018 I should of mentioned I'm going into my 4th year at University. The reason why I'm considering in asking her out is because over the summer she seemed really interested and as our universities are so close to one another, I thought maybe something can happen.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 If you think you will regret it if you don't, then go for it. Who knows what may happen? I hope it all works out and that you do well at uni. Good luck!
d0nnivain Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 If you are going to be a senior, fine go ahead & date somebody at another school since it's so close, assuming you have a convenient way to get there. I thought you were a freshman.
Happy Lemming Posted August 30, 2018 Posted August 30, 2018 I thought you were a freshman. Same here...
mortensorchid Posted August 31, 2018 Posted August 31, 2018 I don't t see what's wrong with going out at least once with her. If you like her that is, might as well give it a shot. If not you will always wonder what if.
Radarsat Posted August 31, 2018 Posted August 31, 2018 Give it a shot, but if there is chemistry and you both want to see each other more, ask yourself can you handle not seeing her as much as you want. A 45 min drive, although not terrribly long, can add up in expenses and be a little bit of a hurdle when you want to see her on a whim. Plus, I'm sure there are loads of beautiful, intelligent and exciting girls on your own campus. Get involved in some clubs and branch out. But I hear you on regrets, ask her for a coffee when you guys are both in the same town. You never know.
coolheadal Posted August 31, 2018 Posted August 31, 2018 Over the past month or so I’ve been talking to this girl who I have liked for quite some time and I really want to ask her out. She seems to be interested, but the only problem I got is both of us will be going away to Uni soon. Although our Uni’s are not too far from each other (45 minutes by car) I’m still hesitant on whether to ask her. So, should I give it a try or just forget it and move on. My friend take some advice I made a mistake once like you are doing now you can overcome that mistake by doing the right thing. Which is go and ask her out and get to know her before she goes. Driving distance is not important. If you really want to be with this girl one day then drive no matter how far it's not life breaker. Never forgot and never move on, because here's your chance to get to know someone different and see where it goes from there! Good luck!
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