Miche789504 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I'm just wondering why guys do the things they do or should I say the things they DON"T do! The guy im talking about, I had a crush on him years ago we would hang out at the same places almost every week, anyway nothing ever came about it and I lost contact with him until a couple of weeks ago. I work in a hospital and I saw him leaving I was like oh hey whats up I havent seen you in so long! It's been like 10 years! I guess he now works the for the corrections department and one of the inmates had to go to the hospital and thats how we ran into each other. I was like oh well if you're here tomorrow why don't you come down to my clinic and say hi.....he said ok and came to visit me. We talked for like and hour and caught up he told me he was so nervous to see me and had to ask someone he works with if he should come here or not......I gave him my number and said we should get together sometime and he agreed....well he never called..I was like ok whatever no big deal, my friend and I went to one of the clubs out here and come to find out he works the door as a bouncer so we bump into each other again! Now he is telling me that he had the biggest crush on me since he met me, he wants to take me out to dinner and I was like yeah but you never called! He said he was nervous and didn't know what to say...but im thinking to myself you could talk to me for an hour in person at my job but you cant call? I was getting ready to leave the club and he was like oh ill call you tomorrow, but if not ill just come visit you at work....i said ok and left it at that....um yeah still nothing and that was last wednesday:mad: Now my question is WTF is up with this guy? It's apparent that we both like each other because I was joking around with him saying dont worry im not mad you didnt call I understand you don't like me and he was like NO i DO like you....what a weirdo! Maybe someone else could give their opinion?
bluechocolate Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Now my question is WTF is up with this guy? If he was really interested in going out with you he'd call, it's not like he had to worry about being rejected. Either that or he's extremely flakey, in which case you don't want to go out with him anyway.
midnight_angel501 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 you know where he works .. go back and talk to him , or better yet ask him for his # .. that will tell u if he is really wanting u or not .
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