Author brokenheartszn Posted September 1, 2018 Author Posted September 1, 2018 That's the best way forward. She could find time to message you if she wanted, let's be real here. The right girl for you will consistently reciprocate interest and work towards the same relationship goals as you. This girl just isn't the one for that. I totally understand. Thanks for your continued input and advice. I appreciate it. Even this long weekend I have heard nothing from her. It’s tough because we talked everyday over the last 6 months. It was t clingy. It was just her style. She always wanted to talk. Now all that’s pulled away, the sex everything. It’s tough. I feel a sense of scarcity. Like I may not find better.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 1, 2018 Posted September 1, 2018 I feel a sense of scarcity. Like I may not find better. You may not find better than a girl who still didn't want to commit to you after 6 months? You need to get out more, man. There are plenty of girls who will offer more than this one ever did.
Author brokenheartszn Posted September 1, 2018 Author Posted September 1, 2018 You may not find better than a girl who still didn't want to commit to you after 6 months? You need to get out more, man. There are plenty of girls who will offer more than this one ever did. I have been out. I volunteer. I also play coed ice hockey for many years. On weekends i go out with my friends to lounges. I am not shy and chat up women etc. Before her, I was single for about a year and a half. I fell hard for her. It was my mistake but the heart wants what it wants. I’m trying to move forward but it’s tough. She’s always on my mind.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 1, 2018 Posted September 1, 2018 I have been out. I volunteer. I also play coed ice hockey for many years. On weekends i go out with my friends to lounges. I am not shy and chat up women etc. Before her, I was single for about a year and a half. I fell hard for her. It was my mistake but the heart wants what it wants. I’m trying to move forward but it’s tough. She’s always on my mind. When I said you needed to get out more, I meant to date more. You say you chat up women, but you'd been single for a while. Was that by choice or because you hadn't met someone who interested you? You will move forward from this. It's still fresh so it stings. Give yourself some time to get past it. But next time you are dating someone, keep in mind that it generally doesn't take 6 months for us ladies to figure out if we want to commit. If there is no commitment by that point, it's likely not going to happen.
Author brokenheartszn Posted September 2, 2018 Author Posted September 2, 2018 So update. This girl returned from the dead and sent me a meme tonight. It’s a meme concerning pizza because she knows I love pizza. I don’t even know how to react or what to reply to this. I’m thinking of replying “who’s this?”
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