She stood me up (M33 Polynesian, F20 German) ** Update **

[Farid]

What you're seeing is the immaturity of a 20 year old, and a stoner at that. You two are at completely different life stages.

 

Sorry, this age gap might not matter if you were 50, and she was 37, but as is, this will never work.

 

Make no further contact with her, and see how she responds. You'll have your answer.

 

She's my housemate haha

 

I haven't chased her btw. Only on two occasions I hinted that I liked her in a aromatic way. After which, the next day, she said "I wanted to stay (rent the room) for 6 months, I may wanna stay longer if you don't have plans to rent it someone else."

 

So.. what would you have thought..

 

I smoke sometimes too btw. We smoked together in the weekend. If you read my first post, also our other interest are so similar.

It's the fist time I meet a girl that has the same dark/dry humor as I have. That was the first thing that amused us both.

 

About the age gap.. if you are stil around I'll make another post describing how I look/live, why would I dare to think I could date a beautiful 20 year old

 

Thanks for you input my dear

[ExpatInItaly]

You are her relatively fun landlord. She has no other interest in you. Please don't pursue this.

 

I agree completely.

 

OP, she doesn't like you in a romantic way. You're her buddy. That's it, man.

[Frogwife]

This was such an "interesting" post, I took a peek at your previous posts... in 2015 you were 32 and from Afghanistan... in 2018 you're 33 and from Polynesia?

[ExpatInItaly]

I haven't chased her btw. Only on two occasions I hinted that I liked her in a aromatic way. After which, the next day, she said "I wanted to stay (rent the room) for 6 months, I may wanna stay longer if you don't have plans to rent it someone else."

 

So.. what would you have thought..

 

Er...that she likes the apartment and wants to stay longer.

 

You read far too much into that. It wasn't her flirting with you.