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How can I tell that she wants to use me as a rebound?


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Hey guys,

 

 

i have recently been thinking about rebound relationships a lot and have to know what things usually indicate that the person im dating is emtionally unstable.

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I don't think having a rebound necessarily qualifies someone as emotionally unstable, but to answer your question, I would ask yourself this:

 

1) Is she recently out of a relationship? Who broke up with whom, and why?

 

2) Does she mention her ex a lot? Does she find ways to bring him up either by remembering activities they did, places they went? Does spew vitriol about him?

 

3) Did she dive in to the new relationship head-first, and then suddenly run cold?

 

4) Is she still in contact with her ex? If so, how often and why? What is the nature of their current communication?

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Hey guys,

 

 

i have recently been thinking about rebound relationships a lot and have to know what things usually indicate that the person im dating is emtionally unstable.

 

When you go out with your new date does she tell you any of the following:

 

1. You look like my ex?

2. You act like just like my ex?

3. My ex use to say the same words you are saying to me.

4. I miss my ex.

5. I still have pictures of my ex do you want to see them?

6. I use to cook this for my ex?

7. My ex is my best friend.

8. I think later today I'll call my ex up and see what he's doing?

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