Text to turn her on?

[Radarsat]

Basic question: Is this lame? How would any of you ladies respond to this? And is there a better one? I haven't had a night alone with my 8 month girlfriend for over a week and I'm dying to see her....

 

"I've got lots of dirty thoughts today...and you're in every one. ;)"

 

Be honest please...or help me out! Thanks!

[smackie9]

That sounds clever

[carhill]

Eight month girlfriend? Sure, but I'd call her. That kind of stuff deserves aural enhancement. Think of it as foreplay for when you return.

[Radarsat]

That sounds clever

 

Thanks smackie9!

[d0nnivain]

How well do you know her? Are you intimate? What's her sense of humor like?

 

Whether we like it isn't the point. It only matters of she likes it.

[Radarsat]

How well do you know her? Are you intimate? What's her sense of humor like?

 

Whether we like it isn't the point. It only matters of she likes it.

 

True. I know her very well. And yes, we are very intimate. I know every woman is different, just wanted some opinions.

[d0nnivain]

I thought it was kind of endearing.

[ExpatInItaly]

In and of itself, it's the kind of message I would love to receive from my boyfriend.

 

In light of your last thread, I will ask you this: how has your communication been the last couple days? I recall that you were sending her a lot of "Are you ok?" and "Are we ok?"-type messages while she was at work last week, and that she was a little annoyed by it.

 

Have things warmed back up with her? If so, I say go ahead with the message.

[Radarsat]

In and of itself, it's the kind of message I would love to receive from my boyfriend.

 

In light of your last thread, I will ask you this: how has your communication been the last couple days? I recall that you were sending her a lot of "Are you ok?" and "Are we ok?"-type messages while she was at work last week, and that she was a little annoyed by it.

 

Have things warmed back up with her? If so, I say go ahead with the message.

 

Things have been WAY better. She's definitely been reaching out more and I think she was simply just busy and focusing on her kids. She hadn't seen them for over a week and a half (they were on vacation with their Dad) and she already told me that last year when they went away, it messes her up a bit. So she wanted to have a special week with just them and I think with the insecurites I had the week before and not trusting her, essentially telling her that, I was simply connecting all of these dots as something that was wrong between us. Not all the dots have to connect sometimes and I just needed to relax.

 

I sent the text. She replied a little later with:

 

"Is that so..."

 

I then said "uh huh....can't wait to have you in my arms tonight. You are simply stunning."

 

She hasn't replied to that yet. But it hasn't been long and she is super busy at work, that I know for sure. She's under the gun to meet a sales quota.

 

I know i over analyze stuff, but hopefully her text back was a good one in your guys opinions.

[d0nnivain]

Sounds positive. Now hush & wait 'til later.

[ExpatInItaly]

Sounds positive. Now hush & wait 'til later.

 

Agreed. Let her respond to you now.

[Mrin]

The most erogenous zone on a woman's body is her brain. If you struck a nerve just sit back and let her brain do the rest... You'll know it when you seen her next.

[Radarsat]

Well, I believe it worked effectively! Had a wonderful night last night with her. Dinner, Movie (Love, Simon, which was excellent btw), and some pretty passionate intimacy. I think things are back on track. Oh, and she even made me my lunch for work today.

 

Thanks guys!